gettingstronger Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 I am wondering if you have had any counseling to figure out why this is still going on- I think that since you are easily pulled back in to a situation your head tells you is wrong, that you would do yourself some good to find out more about yourself- Do you have boundary issues in other parts of your life- do you say yes when you would rather say no- do you settle more than you should, etc.. For me, counseling related to my husbands affair not only helped me with that particular issue, but with other parts of my life as well- although it was not my fault he cheated, there are some things about me that made me vulnerable to others in ways that did not benefit me- KWIM? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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