Stone Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 Hotroderswife, you handled the situation with class and maturity your husband is a very lucky man Link to post Share on other sites
Author HOTRODDERS WIFE Posted May 16, 2005 Author Share Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by Stone Hotroderswife, you handled the situation with class and maturity your husband is a very lucky man Thank you Stone but I think I'm the lucky one. He is very good to me. ~Hotrodders Wife Link to post Share on other sites
loudog Posted May 19, 2005 Share Posted May 19, 2005 Originally posted by HOTRODDERS WIFE [color=darkblue][font=courier new]loudog: You seem to be a little up tight yourself! You sure are awfully defensive for someone who has the "Perfect Wife". Anyway that is your deal. The only reason I posted this was to get to get other opinions. Not once did I say- I didn't trust him or he was going to lay down in the middle of the garage and have sex with the stripper in front of all his friends. I wanted to see if I should say anything or just let it go. I never was not going to let him go. I have never not let him do anything. So I got others opinions. I thank you all very much! I talk to my husband about it all and everything turned out fine. He will be attending and said he was planning on leaving before the stripper got there. If he does, he does if he doesn't then thats OK to because he at least knows how I feel now and that was my major concern! ~Hotrodders Wife[/font][/color] Hotrod The bulk of my comments were not directed specifically to you but the other women in the post who posted some pretty scary comments. My wife perfect?...far from it but she never tries to put limits on me like some of the other posts indicated. She also is very self confident She trusts and gives me space and I do the same for her. Uptight...just because I have had friends with wives like some of the real heavy ones posting here...they were miserable most are divorced...some are no longer friends. Sad situations...sensitive about it for sure. I can tell you that if some subject did bother my wife truly I would most likely find and excuse to save face and keep her happy. I would however never cave into the threats, demands etc. brought forth by some. Best of luck in your case...its best if it works for both. Cheers Lou Link to post Share on other sites
9Lives Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Originally posted by HOTRODDERS WIFE Thank you for your responses. I do not feel that my husband would cheat on me. I know he loves me very much and would never do that. I just feel that having some stripper rub her boods in his face or her crotch on his leg is a slap in the face to me as his wife. That and not to mention the thought gross's me out It isn't going to happen for a couple of weekends so I think I'm gonna wait and see if he says anything. If he doesn't I will bring it up to him. I'm not going to tell him he cannot go but how I will feel if he does. I am probably blowing this way out of per portion but I have a hard time feeling ok about this whole stripper thing with all the stories I have heard. If your husband lets a woman get all on top of him, that is what he wants and that is not the first time it happen. . Nobody can make a happy man do anything he does not want to do. They will look and wonder but they will go home and not be bothered. Link to post Share on other sites
9Lives Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 So should I say anything to him or just try to do my best not to think about it and not let it bother me? Thanks for your help!! ~Hotrodders Wife I will tell you this, yesterday I went to a stripper party...I am a woman and it was wild. The women were crazy. But you could tell the women who had not had none in a while and you could tell the women who was just having fun but not trying to get past that. What I learned is**the stripper will only do what you will allow...and ***you are still in control of your own actions. I was approached several times...I looked, did some small touching and that was it. My boyfriend has already taken care of me so I was not tempted and secondly I have been with a man whose body was straight out of a magazine so I was not shocked to see such a georgeous body...They were fine as hell. But that was my experience Link to post Share on other sites
Author HOTRODDERS WIFE Posted June 27, 2005 Author Share Posted June 27, 2005 Thank you so much everyone for your help! He went had a good time and chose to leave before the stripper got there. Since the BBQ was about an hour and a half a way and it was on a sunday he did not stay late. I am very glad he went and had a good time. And I'm not gonna lie I am glad that he chose to come home. The pictures looked like some of the guys got a little out of hand and there was some pretty upset wives and girlfriends. Anyway thanks again!! ~Hotrodders Wife 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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