Sneider91 Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 Hello it's been 2 weeks from my breakup. The problem she said was that she wasn't in love anymore, she didn't see any future. It was pretty much a fast breakup, she didn't really think about it until a Sunday and after thinking it for 3 days she left me. I've been travelling a lot and that seemed to be the problem, cause she said she didn't felt the same and didn't really miss me as much as the beginning. Also she is in a lot of stress cause she has a lot of exams right now. We were 2 years and a half together, pretty perfect and not any kind of argues or problems. I talked with her 2 times since the breakup, once via text message talking about the breakup (I know its wrong but I couldn't talk by phone or meet up, didn't feel like it) she was pretty sure next day when we talked. After that I kept in touch just because she had the tests. Last Friday we met to talk face to face and she was still sure about the breakup, she said that she was better cause she didn't think about it a lot, the exams. Also she told me that it was the most difficult choice of her life and that if she was wrong that she will tell me. But she wanted to know how I was feeling in that week, she asked friends about how was I feeling. After the face to face talk I felt relieved and started 0C because I was getting obsessed. I was feeling better until today, 5 days of 0C. I unfriend her from fb after the talk and someone told me that she was really upset and wanted to be alone for a time, I really didn't wanted to know anything about her but he just told me. I'm questioning my thoughts, thinking with the brain I want to protect myself but I also think that I want to be back with her. The breakup was pretty calm, I told her that I forgive her but I couldn't keep on going like last week and that it's a goodbye. What do you guys think? Thanks a lot Link to post Share on other sites
aboucher21 Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 Since she broke up with you I would not try to contact her. If there is any chance of her coming back you need to leave her alone and let her see what life is like without you. Do your own thing and move forward. Don't wait around for her as it will only make it harder on you. The time apart will either bring you guys back together or you will be ready to move on. I think it is the best course of action Link to post Share on other sites
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