minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 confidence and a good attitude is the pc answer again. honesty don't even understand what this so called confidence and positive attitude means. how about an actual tangible answer rather than these buzzwords? No, it's the truth. It means feeling good about yourself, and having a good attitude about who you are. It means that you are self-assured, and not dependent on others to make you happy or make you feel important. It's having a good attitude, in general, and not just feeling disgruntled about women. Those things come off of you in all your interactions, and bad attitudes and low self-confidence are both turn-offs. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 the vast majority and it starts even before the first date some of the time. sick of it. So they just come out and say "all you want is sex" without any instigation? Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 its either the majority or the vast majority. im sick of it and im sick of being made to pay for the misdeeds of her exes. That is why once woman are past a certain age as men we need to run away from woman that pick loser after loser after loser . Sorry to say if woman keep going after men that beat them, abuse them verbaly and cheat on them and so on it a red flag to me. BTW I am taking about woman late 20 early 30s at some point it is on you if you keep on picking guys after guy after guy that does that stuff that I posted above. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I dont like online dating for many reasons...i dont take rejecting (or hurting) people in general lightly for starters....i find it hard to do.....i prefer to do it face to face...in nearly everything.....online seems cold and impersonal to me.....easier yeah...but cold...... i think everyone in life deserves chances and it has to be glaringly obvious to me that a person doesnt deserve a chance for em not to give one....i think everyone is different and there's good and bad out there...in all things...you have to do what feels good and right and true to you..if it means saying goodbye then thats what you have to do..you hav eto be sure you say goodbye for the right reasons.........and i dont care if what is true for me is not true for others...as long as i am true to who i am......which does make me honest with the guys i would want to be with and also....to give chances if they are the same way with me.....deb Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 That kinda cute pre school teacher might be an overall better person with more to offer than a lot of those complainer guys. The fact that they are online complaining in the first place instead of living their lives as best as they can is evidence alone that she can do better. I mean, now you're getting into competition again. She's better this and that, and she has more to offer. Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 ive overhead women talking at a table next to me on their girls night out on a couple of occasions. what would you say to your girlfriends? not this pc crap that's posted on here. And what was the context of that conversation? Was one girl talking about a man who was mistreating her? Are you honestly basing your information off of eavesdropping? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 That is why once woman are past a certain age as men we need to run away from woman that pick loser after loser after loser . Sorry to say if woman keep going after men that beat them, abuse them verbaly and cheat on them and so on it a red flag to me. BTW I am taking about woman late 20 early 30s at some point it is on you if you keep on picking guys after guy after guy that does that stuff that I posted above. And I would say that, at one point, it's on men if they keep going after women who complain about sex and make them pay for their past relationships... Once we get past a certain age...what's the age limit for men? Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 Yes to all. It's not about what you have. It's about who you are perceived as and what you look like. Having a job,a car and a place are only prerequisites that don't immediately disqualify you. Dump the glasses for dating unless they are funky and go with some stylish look you have going on. (I need glasses/contacts) If you don't have all your hair (I don't), shave it off, wear it very short or get it replaced. Not many women are attracted to giant, bulging muscles, but the majority prefer a soccer/futbol type lean, muscular look. Be fun, be charming, be witty, in addition to being yourself. Look as described above. Then you'll have plenty of opportunities to select the girl who is most compatible with you... the core some of the things above are built upon. FWIW, I love glasses. On everyone. They add a certain something, and I always find them attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 You can want whatever you want. I agree with you that some people want a lot more than they can offer, but the difference is, I don't care. If some woman with nothing to offer expects Christian Grey or some other fantasy douchebag to come along and sweep her off her feet, more power to her. I will just laugh and move on. The point is, if the type of women you want don't want you, you can either complain about it endlessly, give up entirely, or actually do something that might change your situation. All up to you. The only reason 50 sades of grey made any money is because the guy millionaire / billionaire and has power. I can write the same book and make it about an average guy that makes 75k a year take home works out in good shape does not live at the gym , and has a good social life . No female would read it and it would fail big time. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 The only reason 50 sades of grey made any money is because the guy millionaire / billionaire and has power. I can write the same book and make it about an average guy that makes 75k a year take home works out in good shape does not live at the gym , and has a good social life . No female would read it and it would fail big time. I never read or watched 50 shades because just the mere concept of it seems totally ridiculous, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 And I would say that, at one point, it's on men if they keep going after women who complain about sex and make them pay for their past relationships... Once we get past a certain age...what's the age limit for men? That is fair how about the same age as I posted late 20s like after 25. Why cant loser females and males date one another? Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 The only reason 50 sades of grey made any money is because the guy millionaire / billionaire and has power. I can write the same book and make it about an average guy that makes 75k a year take home works out in good shape does not live at the gym , and has a good social life . No female would read it and it would fail big time. Wrong. It made money because it was a sex story made for women. Same thing with Magic Mike Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 That is fair how about the same age as I posted late 20s like after 25. Why cant loser females and males date one another? Labeling single people older than 25 as los ers is straight-up stupid. For one. Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I never read or watched 50 shades because just the mere concept of it seems totally ridiculous, lol. This all you need to know : Gilbert Gottfried Reads 50 Shades of Grey : :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: 2 Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 women can't help but bring up their exes. can't stand it. trying to change the topic is fruitless. it wasn't intentional eavesdropping but where you're just a few feet away in a bar or restaurant you hear a lot. You know, generalizing will get you nowhere. Attitude is EVERYTHING. But don't believe me. Keep doing what you're doing. Sounds like it is getting you places. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 Wrong. It made money because it was a sex story made for women. Same thing with Magic Mike I think you missed the point the guy was rich and powerful woman for the most part want that not all but some do. If i wrote the same book but made the main character average to above average it would not make money. You would never rant a porn with Roseanne barr and rosie o'donnell starring in it would you it the same thing. That not sexy to most men and what men view as sexy is not the same as what woman find sexy. :cool: Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 This all you need to know : Gilbert Gottfried Reads 50 Shades of Grey : :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: Holy mother of god... -___- Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 Labeling single people older than 25 as los ers is straight-up stupid. For one. Um go back in read what I said : I was talking about woman and men that pick loser after loser and cant figure it out and at some point it on them. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 So? I went to see the Lord of the Rings, because I think it's cool. Doesn't mean I expect to date an elf chick. Dibs on Tauriel... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
minime13 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I think you missed the point the guy was rich and powerful woman for the most part want that not all but some do. If i wrote the same book but made the main character average to above average it would not make money. You would never rant a porn with Roseanne barr and rosie o'donnell starring in it would you it the same thing. That not sexy to most men and what men view as sexy is not the same as what woman find sexy. :cool: No, I didn't miss the point. Harlequin romance novels have always been a hit with the ladies. If it's all about money and power, please explain - as I referenced - Magic Mike, and Magic Mike XXL. Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 my eyesight is awful and can't handle contacts. so im screwed there. don't know why women make a big deal if this, but they do. not about to shave my head. better get to the gym and work out relentlessly for years. getting in the shape of a soccer player would take that long. can't even fathom it. sorry im not charming or witty. wasn't born with that. at least im employed but apparently that doesn't matter. finally an answer with substance. it wasn't what i wanted to hear. but it's not the absolute bs others are posting. It is, however, the truth. There's no reason you can't make some improvements in these areas to increase the number of girls you have to choose from. I wear a 5.5 diopter lens with astigmatism. Pretty bad. I can't wear contacts all the time either. They have new super moisture daily disposable ones for the same $$$ as any other type. Check them out...or develop an image that allows you to wear cool/funky glasses. Are you half bald? If so, let it go, man. Don't hang onto it. Shave or go very, very short. You can always improve on physical fitness. Nobody gets results all at once. It does take a year or two. I didn't say be born charming and witty... I said be charming and witty. Out of all of this real information, you choose to do absolutely nothing, making excuses for each and every point. So... my diagnosis is women aren't into you because you're lazy. Point blank. I'm not trying to be a jerk.., trying to legitimately help, but you won't get off your &ss and do anything. So you'll be stuck where you are for as long as you choose to do nothing about it. If you chose just 2 of these things and did them, guaranteed you'd see results. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 define loser female and loser male. Well I do not date men so I do not care what makes them a loser but this sums it all up. 21 Men Identify The Red Flags They Use To Determine If A Woman Is A “Loser” 21 Men Identify The Red Flags They Use To Determine If A Woman Is A ?Loser? | Thought Catalog my top 5 in no order. I know a girl that can only go 1-3 months between boyfriends. She doesn’t know how to be independent and self-sustaining, both mentally and physically. Girls with multiple baby daddies A general lack of self-awareness, or just an inability to recognize that their actions have consequences. Proclaiming how much she gets along with her “friends” while tearing them down behind their backs. Wondering why they feel like **** all the time when their diet consists of mostly Cliff bars, flavored vodka, and Vitamin Water. Link to post Share on other sites
neowulf Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 you just don't get it do you? we can't get angry at the woman who cheated on us or dumped us on our birthday because we get rejected every time. next you will tell us don't go for women out of your league, yet even the women with no job and several kids and unattractive will reject us. and by the way we think women are people too. must be nice to have that natural charm and good looks. most of us aren't so lucky. and many of you have made dating into a game. ask permission to kiss her or mention anything remotely sexual are you're out. weasel your way in through fake charm and you can get whatever you want whether it be a marriage or quick sex. So answer me this. Why do you think these men are being rejected over and over again? Because I can tell who's fault it isn't. The women they're approaching. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 No, I didn't miss the point. Harlequin romance novels have always been a hit with the ladies. If it's all about money and power, please explain - as I referenced - Magic Mike, and Magic Mike XXL. Well magic mike is about sex and guys in great shape. Yea I know that Harlequin romance novels are a hit with woman , but 50 sades of grey made it big time. Yes you missed the point it is ok if you did not get it . Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 Holy mother of god... -___- BTW Time to rethink buying a second-hand copy of Fifty Shades of Grey? Library copy of erotic novel tests positive for HERPES and COCAINE 50 Shades of Grey library book tests positive for HERPES and COCAINE | Daily Mail Online 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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