frigginlost Posted July 16, 2015 Share Posted July 16, 2015 Was plotting...a few weeks back, then went NC, now I realise that getting back with her would be a mistake. She's the one who wanted to "stay friends"she's the one who kept contacting me. I stopped texting her for 3 days, and she emailed rang, and texted me all in a few hours! She only got grumpy when I went NC seriously... That was then, this is now. Her last communications with you are blunt and to the point. She is not interested in you at all. When you walked out, she was probably riding the wave of rejection emotions. You then started with your "cunning" and manipulative ideas/actions. She read through them, totally. She did not, will not, and is not falling for any smoke and mirror tricks coming from you. Right now, you totally and completely need to use NC, not as a trick, but as a way to heal and move on. She is done with you. Sorry, man... Link to post Share on other sites
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Share Posted July 16, 2015 That was then, this is now. Her last communications with you are blunt and to the point. She is not interested in you at all. When you walked out, she was probably riding the wave of rejection emotions. You then started with your "cunning" and manipulative ideas/actions. She read through them, totally. She did not, will not, and is not falling for any smoke and mirror tricks coming from you. Right now, you totally and completely need to use NC, not as a trick, but as a way to heal and move on. She is done with you. Sorry, man... *Sigh...I see you fail at reading comprehension... Let me highlight the important part of my last post you and Simon seemed to have missed: I realise that getting back with her would be a mistake. I'M NOT TRYING TO GET HER BACK Link to post Share on other sites
frigginlost Posted July 17, 2015 Share Posted July 17, 2015 *Sigh...I see you fail at reading comprehension... Let me highlight the important part of my last post you and Simon seemed to have missed: I realise that getting back with her would be a mistake. I'M NOT TRYING TO GET HER BACK Did quite well in English, thank you. Let me put it another way: "I think you're full of it". I think you're still entirely hung-up on this woman, and you most certainly are trying to get her back. You would not be asking for advice on how to manipulate her if you were not.... But you're free to keep trying to convince yourself otherwise. Best of luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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