Flozfzx Posted June 18, 2015 Share Posted June 18, 2015 My ex contact me about 2 months ago she said she wanted to work things out slowly but she has a relationship(rebound) she said she regretted leaving but wants to work slowly. I agree too it so we talked slowly and starting meeting and just talking about our problems and how to heal. We made out a few time and went on a date one times before i stop everything because shes still in a rebound relationship and explain to her we need to stop and she needs to break it off. the next month she started complaining and started saying that she wants to leave him and started (i took it as a small guarantees to keep me around I'm assuming.) that she was going to break it off and she had enough. but when it came time too she didn't she did this about 3 to 4 times. but she told me everything she was doing where she was wheres shes going on the weekends. I started blasting her phone in pushing her to leave the guy if shes really serious about this but i think she wanted to just keep me on the side until she really broke it off so i started pushing her and telling her that she was wrong for doing it like this and why did she ever contact me while she had someone it was such a bad timing. A few times i told her to contact me when shes finish with her relationship and if she comes back she comes back if not life moves on. I said it a few times but came back lol but today I really meant it and if she wants to come back then she needs to leave that guy if not life moves on and wish her the best. My question is do you think i was wrong for pushing her to leave the guy? Maybe she doesn't know how to do it but that's no excuse you either tell him or not but not go behind his back. second question is should i just kept on with her game or did i do right in tell her to contact me when shes done with him ? Link to post Share on other sites
ColdandLonelyinAK Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I think you were wrong for telling her that basically you will wait around for her while she's indecisive and being shady. She is cheating basically, and you're aiding her in that. Tell her you're done. If you get back together with this girl, what's to say she won't do the same thing to you that she's doing to him? Go NC. It just doesn't seem worth it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I agree with the above comment. She is cheating and totally dishonest with her current Bf, and dishonest with you. She is a selfish manipulative liar heartless girl. I advise you to go full NC without any word of explanation. never answer her calls or texts or mails. If you can't do that, just call and tell her that you and her are done, and you don't want anything to do with her anymore. She will ask why, you will answer "because i deserve someone better". Link to post Share on other sites
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