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Just asked a friend out and called me sweet


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SeanGreen209

So i asked this friend out that i have known for about a month and we got to know each other a little bit and when i asked her out this is what she said. "Hi Sean. you are sweet and i really do enjoy talking to you and dancing with you. i have found that it is better to keep things at the Colorado( bar that we dance at) at least at first. to be honest i normally don't even give out my number ( witch she gave me), so i'd definitely prefer to keep things as they are right now."

 

so what should i do i really like her and want to move forward should i play it cool and wait it out. i've never been one to not be in a relationship. is this a death sentence? i know its not that shes sleeping around and that shes dating someone i know shes still a virgin and single.

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That's a no. Her saying "right now" is a foolish thing women do in an effort to not hurt a guy's feelings. It's a no. If she was interested, she wouldn't be putting you on hold. She's not interested. She just liked you as a friend. Women like guys as friends just fine, whereas most of the time if a man is being friendly to a woman, he is attracted to her. Not so with women most of the time.

 

Find someone new to focus on. Sorry it didn't work out.

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She is not romantically interested in you and you have been soundly put into the friend category. You can be friends with her if your friendship is genuine but don't hang around pretending to be her friend when you really want it to be more.

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