autumnnight Posted June 20, 2015 Share Posted June 20, 2015 It still amazes me how one text can mean a woman is cheating, and yet on this thread every man is swearing up and down missing pills and pills in the briefcase mean nothing. Sickening double standard. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Morro72 Posted June 20, 2015 Share Posted June 20, 2015 When the OP gets to the bottom of this not-very-mysterious mystery she will find a perfectly reasonable explanation for the missing pills that her H who doesn't need Viagra carried in his briefcase: he wanted to be able to perform for his twenty-something GF like the twenty-something guys she is used to banging. There. That wasn't so difficult, was it? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
wineberry Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Yes, we do.... I have SEVERAL buddies that share info and/or pills with their friends. Yes, we talk about it, quite common. What works, what doesn't, etc. And this group includes ages 40 to over 70. My brother, age 47, and his friends share info and/or pills. Insurance only covers so many pills. Also, some men may have performance issues with a new partner due to anxiety. Link to post Share on other sites
Winterina Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 It does not look good to me given the history and his short answer when asked about the pills. It is very dumb to use something for sexual function and not share any info about that with your partner. Shouldn't she know what is going on? It is the same as carrying a condom pack that is missing condoms in your briefcase. If you do, you better have a damn good explanation and not just answer yes or no when asked about it. OP, why didn't you just ask where and when did he use the pills and why? Short and direct question that requires corresponding answer. If he tries to bs his way out of it or says something short again, then just start snooping. This guy is likely cheating on you and he anyway treats you like s..t as seen from your other posts. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 (edited) OP, He told me his dr. gave him samples of viagra and told him he should try and would be a great experience with his wife. I work in healthcare and I call BS on this ^^^ Doctors/physicians don't give out "samples" of viagra to enable a "great experience". Viagra is only prescribed after a consultation with the patient who has complained of erectile dysfunction, and only after a thorough medical examination. How do doctors decide on a treatment for ED? There are serious side effects from this drug which is why it isn't given out willy-nilly. https://onlinedoctor.lloydspharmacy.com/uk/info/viagra-side-effects Personally, I don't believe him. If he has just a few tablets he could have obtained them via the internet. You need to have a serious talk with about this. Sorry. Edited June 21, 2015 by Arieswoman 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 It still amazes me how one text can mean a woman is cheating, and yet on this thread every man is swearing up and down missing pills and pills in the briefcase mean nothing. Sickening double standard. Actually, most of us have said the circumstances aren't proof he's cheating. Like your text example, have to place in within context. Have to admit, with the additional info posted, context does not look good ... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
OldRover Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 OP, I work in healthcare and I call BS on this ^^^ Doctors/physicians don't give out "samples" of viagra to enable a "great experience". Viagra is only prescribed after a consultation with the patient who has complained of erectile dysfunction, and only after a thorough medical examination. How do doctors decide on a treatment for ED? There are serious side effects from this drug which is why it isn't given out willy-nilly. https://onlinedoctor.lloydspharmacy.com/uk/info/viagra-side-effects Personally, I don't believe him. If he has just a few tablets he could have obtained them via the internet. You need to have a serious talk with about this. Sorry. Arieswoman, While I can appreciate the fact you work in healthcare, but pills are given out ALL THE TIME. I've been the recipient of many over the years....no big diagnosis, no complaining, no exam... NOTHING.... From several doctors (but most know me reasonably well), have given me sample, sample and more samples.... and the comment is "will make you hard as a rock of you can have a great time". The first time was from my AME, who was 80 at the time, gave me some and said, that will satisfy you and your lady.... that was ~10 years ago. Apparently he felt they would work (and they did). This is not from one DR. but several. Just three weeks ago, got a month's supply of Cialis daily as a sample.... "to enjoy sex more". Link to post Share on other sites
OldRover Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Probably addressed best to the moderator.... Just made a post and got a message that: /Users/FS/Desktop/Screen Shot 2015-06-21 at 5.35.55 PM.pdf (If that does't show up, it basically says the post must be reviewed and approved by a moderator before it will be visible, up to 48 hours. What triggers this? Thx. BTW, can we post pictures, or PDFs on our posts?, If so, how? Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 Old Rover, With all due respect, While I can appreciate the fact you work in healthcare, but pills are given out ALL THE TIME. I've been the recipient of many over the years....no big diagnosis, no complaining, no exam... NOTHING.... This must be in USA. ^^^ I cannot believe this happens in UK. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OldRover Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 Old Rover, With all due respect, This must be in USA. ^^^ I cannot believe this happens in UK. Understand, I haven't spend enough time there to know. Link to post Share on other sites
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