Bubsa Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 I am really confused I cant seem to open up to anyone about emotions. (Mainly Love) . I dont think I can give or accept love of any kind. I have never told anyone I loved them my Girlfriend who also is the mother of my Child. Any of my Family or my 2 year old son. I know I Love him and I try an show him I do. But I could never say the words "I love you to Him" (WHY THE HELL NOT I DO NOT KNOW!!!). Relationship wise I think I get Sex and Love mixed up. I have a really high sex Drive and when used to have lots of sex with my Girlfriend I thought that was love, but now we dont I feel that she does not love me I am confused, Wierd or What. I have recently split up with my Girlfriend over this but I cant find answers. I think I had a happy childhood but I cant seem to remember much from before I was 10 Years old. I know when I was 13 My Dad had a Nervous Breakdown and he has never recovered (I know that really Affected the way I looked at him). I went trhough a Faze of Drink and Drugs and a Teenager because of this. My Mum And Dad never told me they Loved me I don't think, though I am sure they did and I get on really well with My Mum. I feel as if I cant be close to anyone. I know I am scared to get hurt is that why I am like this. But Why can't I even tell my two year old son I love him. (Even I know he is not going to hurt me). I have a good Job, Social Life is good, Fairly Fit, Good Personality. ETC But Cant Get over This. If it Helps I try and be liked by everyone and feel the need that I have to be. Any Help would be really Appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 maybe you are afraid to say that you love someone because it may be percieved that you are a weak emotional guy. do you show any emotions that could be considered "soft"...like crying or sadness? could be you are keeping yourself detached from everyone out of some fera you have. maybe the fear of hurt, or loss, or diappointment? Maybe you need to evaluate what you current definition of love is, and revise it. Hard to say exactly what your deal is. Link to post Share on other sites
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