sirtyner Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 So I met this girl who I've come to like. We happen to work together and we have a great time. So about a month ago I found out she was starting to like me but I didn't feel the same about her at that time. So after a couple weeks past I started talking to her and getting to know her and I ended up liking her too. We went on a date last week and it was amazing. I made the first move my going in and kissing her. Right after kissing her she grabbed my hand and we held hands for the rest of the night. She was also extremely close to me. Whenever we kissed she seemed to be the one who initiated it after my first move and was all over me. However this week has been very different. She stopped acting the way she did around me and was different. Whenever I asked what was wrong she would always tell me nothing is wrong but i know there always was. I found out she was going through a lot with school and home problems. But yesterday I talked to her and she told me I was overwhelming her. She said "We've only been on one date and you're already talking about seriously dating and stuff." So I told her I would back off and that we should hang out more and take things slow. That was my bad on my part for talking about dating after one date but she was telling me she wanted to be with me too but to give it a little more time when we were out on that date. I need some advice, what should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 Well, you missed the window of opportunity on that first date... she was receptive and instead of making a strong move you started talking about a future. She was ready to be taken, not courted. Now you have to try to recreate that scenario and if you're lucky enough to get a second shot, read the cues... and your best chance will be exactly 28 days from that first date. Link to post Share on other sites
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