Naive Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Alphamale: Ya either love him or ya hate him. Can't live with him, can't live without him
laRubiaBonita Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 you can title the book: "AlphaMale's Guide to Keeping Women and Getting Some, yet Never having to Get Married"
EC Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 "AlphaMale's Guide to Keeping Women and Getting Some, yet Never having to Get Married" PERFECT!
simon_uk Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Seems like a perfect plan Alpha but didnt you say that you lost your gf five months ago???? Was that before you devised the plan??? just curious And to EC "as long as he goes down south once in a while?" Cant understand why any mna wouldnt want to go down south all the time!!!!! Baffles me if they dont??!!?!?!?!?!?
EC Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Cant understand why any mna wouldnt want to go down south all the time!!!!! Baffles me if they dont??!!?!?!?!?!? ??? I dont understand it either??? And BTW don't want to Hijack but my bf grabbed me last night and ate it like a vulture. Then I woke up and he went down again!! FINALLY after a month!! I am a very happy person today. Thats why I had to add it on the list lmao!
Author alphamale Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by simon_uk Seems like a perfect plan Alpha but didnt you say that you lost your gf five months ago???? Was that before you devised the plan??? just curious no SIMON_UK. I walked out on her 5 months ago cause she was misbehaving. During that 5 months of strict NC she contacted me twice and I never responded. But she contacted me yesterday and I replied back. We are getting together in about 10 days. I have made her suffer enough and also got to mess around with some other women since thanksgiving. Now she will have me back. he he
simon_uk Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 good for you Alpha!!!! Wish I had the same luck with my ex bt I doubt that will happen seeing as she dumped me:-(
tokyo Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale yes, don't be friends with any woman you are interested in romantically (for future i mean) or were interested in romantically. what is the point? Why not? Just because there's no romance anymore, does this make her a less interesting person? Can't you just be nice to an ex? If she's not interested anymore and if you are not interested anymore, what's the reason to be so cold to each other?
Author alphamale Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by kooky If she's not interested anymore and if you are not interested anymore, what's the reason to be so cold to each other? well KOOKY here is why: 1) most breakups are not mutual so one of the two will want to get back together so why stay in contact or even friends? 2) staying "friends" keeps many people with moving on with their lives and finding someone else 3) went you eventually do find someone new there is a good chance that person will become very jealous of your friendship with an ex lover 4) friend should stay in a friends category and lovers should stay in lovers category. don't intertwine the two. 5) some people keep an ex lover as a friend to take advantage of them or get something from them.
Naive Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by TUDOR Should have posted this one Monday...would have got all kinds of arguments. But its Friday, hard to argue! Oh that is so true!!! I always have time and power to fight with him but not on a freekin' friday!!!
Pocky Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 It's not a bad list, but you know I disagree with some parts of it. However, I won't bore you with my opinion. I'm sure I've communicated it enough times as it is.
FolderWife Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 well...*sigh* if you want an argument, here it is. I don't agree with all this, "Treat 'em like s*** and they'll never leave" bullcrap. My husband treated me like gold. In comparison to the way all the men BEFORE him treated me, he DOES treat me like gold. With all the crap men that's out there, I doubt that I'll ever find a better one. So I live with a porn addict who gets mean and rude when he's hiding something...but he has improved a LOT since our first year of marriage. All his mistreating me causes problems, and I stay because I don't believe in walking away from a marriage until I've exhausted every and all options. These "good guys" that can't get a woman are ugly. These "good guys" who can't keep a woman are hooking up with biotches. It's not that the guy is a good guy, it's that he is picking bad women. I dated a lot of losers. I tried to make it work because IN THE BEGINNING, they treated me perfect. Once they stopped treating me perfect, I didn't get it, so I worked on the relationship for a couple of weeks, and then the guy dumped me. And I didn't ask for him to take me back EVER, because I was relieved! My husband treated me great in the beginning, and slowly went downhill, but then when I was at my wits end, he'd straighten up. and then I found in a self help book that all men do that...so why leave him for another man, when this other man will do it too!? I don't stay with him because he treats me bad...I stay with him because he treats me good.
Author alphamale Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by Monday and then I found in a self help book that all men do that...so why leave him for another man, when this other man will do it too!? i believe this applies to women equally. they start out treating their man well and eventually regress. and that is where my rules come in. I don't stay with him because he treats me bad...I stay with him because he treats me good. I believe this is basically what I was saying in my rules. Know when to treat your partner well and when to treat 'em like shyt.
Lil Honey Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Shhhhh! Shhhhh, everyone! I'm busy controlling my man. *wink* No argument, if that's whatcha want . . . LOL
fire Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 well alpha, its a good list has anybody got one for how to keep a man hooked?
Author alphamale Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by Lil Honey I'm busy controlling my man. *wink*
tiki Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I my PW'ed man. LOL.....Just kidding. But he did email me earlier and ask if I minded if he had lunch with the guys at the office. He's trying to save money for our Disney trip. I was like, whaaaa? I told him to grow a set and get out of my face....lol. I called him PWed. He so is. He likes it that way. But it's like...dayum...you're a hard working man, why do you feel like I have to approve a five dollar purchase???? Get real!
TUDOR Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by tiki I my PW'ed man. But it's like...dayum...you're a hard working man, why do you feel like I have to approve a five dollar purchase???? Get real! What amount does he have to approve before all hell breaks loose?
Author alphamale Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by tiki why do you feel like I have to approve a five dollar purchase???? Get real! maybe he's really going to the tittie bar with his buds for lunch. that would be about $50
tiki Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by TUDOR What amount does he have to approve before all hell breaks loose? I don't know why he can't feel like he's entitled to spend money??? I think it's an ex-wife issue. She was always bitchin at him. maybe he's really going to the tittie bar with his buds for lunch. that would be about $50 Five...not fifty And I've got *plenty* of those.
Merin Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Hmm.. seems to me the same *Rules* could apply to either sex...
sad123 Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Alphmale, great list...now let's flip the script and tell us what you think is a "Guide for keeping men around":)
Author alphamale Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Hmm.. seems to me the same *Rules* could apply to either sex... Yes MERIN, u are correct. Originally posted by sad123 Alphmale, great list...now let's flip the script and tell us what you think is a "Guide for keeping men around":) it really applies to everyone
Merin Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Yes MERIN, u are correct. *Swoon* say My name again while saying I'm right..
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