quidproquo89 Posted June 20, 2015 Share Posted June 20, 2015 Hey, I'm in two minds at the moment. Long story short I moved to an isolated country town with my family 5 years ago and it hasn't clicked for me socially. Except for Online dating I haven't had a date since a year ago and I have one friend whose available on a blue moon. Needless to say this isn't cutting it for me. I have two choices.. find work in a larger town with a bigger population nearby and still leave at home or.. Lodge at my best mate's house 5 hours away for a month, spend some time socialising with him and a small handful of my old friends and see if it suits me. If so look for work and women there. Its a quandary coz it seems I can either have my family here or my friends there. Normally you would say family all the way and I would agree. But 5 years has gone by and I spend so much of my time on my own in the evenings. A little insight is that my current town is miles away from anywhere else and the locals are very clicky (as in they stick to their own groups). Online dating didn't work as everyone is far away when you search and women here all have fellas. Thoughts... Link to post Share on other sites
joseb Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Surely you don't need to see your family every day? Why not move somewhere you want to live and work and visit them once a month or so. My family live in a similar place, I love visiting (occasionally) but I haven't lived there since I was 17. Link to post Share on other sites
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