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my guy friend gets real defensive when i tell him he's the opposite of what i'm looking for. he'll say possess those qualities, just doesn't show it. why would he care what i was looking for if he's not interested in dating me?

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Fleur de cactus

WHat do you mean he is not interested in dating you when you are the one who is telling him that he is not what you are looking for?

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WHat do you mean he is not interested in dating you when you are the one who is telling him that he is not what you are looking for?

 

i never told him he's not what i'm looking for, rather when i describe my ideal he says he is those things, however he doesn't ask me out and gives me the impression he is not interested.

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