Lernaean_Hydra Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 Lol as someone that has two extremely good looking friends i would say that you are totally 100% wrong. Both of my friends could literally get any girl they want. They always have 2-3 girls texting them. One of them dated a cheerleader of a mlb baseball team and one of them is dating a millionaire who buys him anything. I get what you're saying but uh, baseball doesn't have cheerleaders... 4 Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 (edited) I think you might be right in some respects. Women who lack confidence for whatever reason (and it may be nothing to do with their looks) might feel more comfortable with a not-so-good-looking guy. She might feel he is less likely to go off with some other woman, whether it's true or not. However, I think it probably comes down more to impulsiveness and extroversion. As a good-looking guy, you may find you are more likely to be approached by more impulsive or extrovert women, rather than those who have more self-control and are not so outgoing. If you are finding that dating isn't working for you when it comes to long-term relationships, maybe the women who are choosing you and chasing you are just not your types. Also, really beautiful women tend to know that they are beautiful. They have had experience of guys being really attracted then 'loving them and leaving them', so they can be more cool and aloof until they trust a guy. They also expect men to be attracted based on looks and are not always confident about their personality. For some, their personality is so mixed-up with looking like a beautiful fashion-princess that they don't see personality as being that important. It's only when looks fade that they realise they don't have the edge any more. If you are looking for someone with depth, then try considering the quieter women who are not in the stunning league and finding out about them. Both sexes are so easily distacted by physical beauty and the drama of very extrovert characters that they fail to notice there are other types of people in the world. Edited June 25, 2015 by spiderowl Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 Said in my best preacher voice: "As true now as when it was written. Amen." 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 I have occasionally spoken to other "good looking guys" who are very successful with women. I tried comparing my experiences with theirs. As in, has a woman ever done x, y or z to you? Their response is "never." Do tell. I wanna know what I missing out on (and so it seems certain other good lookin dudes too) Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 I get what you're saying but uh, baseball doesn't have cheerleaders... I was thinking the same thing... One of several confusing statements on here. This thread kind of wandered into some kind of high school popularity contest or something. I think the original question was do good looking guys or average guys have more dating opportunities. The answer is good looking guys. This is not rocket surgery. Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 Said in my best preacher voice: "As true now as when it was written. Amen." Awww, my teenage years! Thanks, loveweary11 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 It probably is more a preference. what one calls handsome and beautiful.... another may not. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 This is not rocket surgery. Interesting merging of words, number six! Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 Zoolander killed the concept of “too good looking” for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author danmillar Posted June 26, 2015 Author Share Posted June 26, 2015 Said in my best preacher voice: "As true now as when it was written. Amen." An even better title for this thread! Link to post Share on other sites
Author danmillar Posted June 26, 2015 Author Share Posted June 26, 2015 Do tell. I wanna know what I missing out on (and so it seems certain other good lookin dudes too) Well, just try to imagine what your life would be like if you were really, really, really....ridiculously....good looking. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 Well, danmiller! You sound like a guy that was on here several years ago called mr sexxxy! He seems to have the same problems you have. You might look him up and compare ( if your not also mr sexxxy) Just wondering...... Link to post Share on other sites
Revan32 Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 Well, danmiller! You sound like a guy that was on here several years ago called mr sexxxy! He seems to have the same problems you have. You might look him up and compare ( if your not also mr sexxxy) Just wondering...... I just read through a bunch of that guys post. What a jackass! I'd feel bad for whatever girl ends up with him, but she's probably going to be just as arrogant if she can stand him for more than 5 minutes. As for OP, no I don't really think there is any disadvantage being good looking with the vast majority of girls. 99% of the time, the good looking guy is getting more and higher quality girls. That being said, there are different types of good looking that are going to do better in different aspects. A guy who has the razor sharp features look of a runway model may get disqualified for coming off a certain way (pretentious, snooty, shallow, ect) , while an equally good looking All-American quarterback jock type may get the same girl with no problems. She could just have some preconceptions concerning how the runway model looks regardless of if they are true or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 My brother has had women flat out tell him I can't trust you because you're too good looking Link to post Share on other sites
Pompom Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 I may be shy about taking the initiative no matter what his looks, but the moment he shows interest, no matter how hot he is, I am obviously good enough. So, meh? Link to post Share on other sites
Author danmillar Posted June 26, 2015 Author Share Posted June 26, 2015 My brother has had women flat out tell him I can't trust you because you're too good looking Very interesting. Doesn't get any more explicit than that. Reading through this thread, I'm realizing that women who get flustered, or get upset, activate a "chase instinct" which is very appealing in a way that is quite different from women who are "instantly available" so to speak. In the latter case, a lot of the mystery and incentive to pursue is lost. Link to post Share on other sites
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