Flozfzx Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 My ex came back after 8 months from an 8 year relationship. I didnt have contact for 6 month and the others months were just quick texts about a stuff i needed back she moved on with another guy. But now wants to work it out but she still with this guy and its been 2 months talking back and forth with me. I dont know what to do i love her but im just self damaging from this. She keeps telling me shes going to leave him, shes unhappy and wants her old life back. But she never gives me a month when she is going to break it off asked her why doesnt she said she replies my way and when i can. She said she doesnt want to hurt the other guys feelings but she sure can go behind his back. I dont know what to do but i tell her why come back into my life when you know you werent ready. She doesnt give a replied. Should i just move on and send her a message politely saying that im just exiting from her life? Or ? I honestly cant take any of this anymore. Any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
CharlesV Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 Man up dude! It's you or him, she is now having both which is not done. Girls do this all the time, they say "oh I want to work things out hmmm", when in fact, she has another dick inside of her. If she is in a relationship (like right now), leave her alone. Tell her something like this: "I really want to work this out, but when you are still together with your boyfriend it's just not gonna work, sorry." Then never contact her again. Let her do 100% of the chasing. She will come back, but ONLY if you walk away and never look back from this point on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 Man up dude! It's you or him, she is now having both which is not done. Girls do this all the time, they say "oh I want to work things out hmmm", when in fact, she has another dick inside of her. If she is in a relationship (like right now), leave her alone. Tell her something like this: "I really want to work this out, but when you are still together with your boyfriend it's just not gonna work, sorry." Then never contact her again. Let her do 100% of the chasing. She will come back, but ONLY if you walk away and never look back from this point on. Hell, no! Just curt her off! She's to-ing and fro-ing and is out of your life and has no right to mindf**k you, no way no how!! Cut off all contact and refuse point-blank to entertain any of her nonsense at all, in any way whatsoever! If she really IS serious about wanting to try again with you - she's going to have to put her money where her mouth is. Talk is cheap and actions speak louder. And I hate to say it but you're a fool if you take her back now. Really, you are.... because I predict she will want to come back to you, but you'll have to do all the work to keep her happy. That's why she wants out of the relationship she's in now. Because he doesn't make her happy. But get this: That's not your job either! If she wants back in, she will have to do the majority of the donkey work. And as I see it just here, you've got no chance of her stepping up to the plate. It's all about how unhappy she is, not about how happy she wants to make you. "No. The answer, is No. You chose crap, now deal with it. get lost and don't contact me ever again. You broke my heart once, you really think I'm a sucker to set myself up for that happening again? Oh, you wouldn't do that? Really? I bet you wouldn't have done that last time either - but you did!" Honestly - kick her to the kerb. You really, really don't need drama like this. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 Good grief RUN. Don't be polite about it, best way would be to simply block her. Of course she doesn't give a reply, she just tests the waters to see if you're still on her backburner. Block and move on. You've ruined 6 months of NC for nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
Thistooshallpass21 Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 Dude if she's doing this to another guy what makes you think she won't do the same thing with you if you guys got back together? She doesn't deserve your time cut it off. I know it's hard but something a whole lot better will come your way. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 Dude if she's doing this to another guy what makes you think she won't do the same thing with you if you guys got back together? Judging from his other threads she already did this to him before running off to the other guy. I don't know why he wants to be cheated on again. Link to post Share on other sites
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