Flozfzx Posted June 23, 2015 Share Posted June 23, 2015 Did i sabotage things with my ex? She started opening up to me we were talking and meeting each other she talked about the future and was serious but she came back while she was in a new relationship of 4 months. I went along with it but then just started thinking things thru and didnt want to rekindle this way while she was with someone else its wrong. Yes its great that shes back in my life. But not like that. While we were talking she i started blowing up her phone pushing her to leave the guy. She said to me why am i sabotaging things. I told her im not sabotaging anything because we arent together. I kept pushing to leave him but kept saying soon soon and its been too months. So i told her just to contact me when shes single. Did i do the right thing? Or ? Any feed backs would be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2015 Share Posted June 23, 2015 Blowing up her phone was not the right thing. Telling her to make a choice you or him was fine but you only get to say that once. The minute she failed to immediately break off with him was her picking him over you. Since she has done that you now bow out gracefully. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flozfzx Posted June 23, 2015 Author Share Posted June 23, 2015 What should i do from this point on. Just let her be? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2015 Share Posted June 23, 2015 Yes. That is all you can do. She made her choice. Pestering her will get you a restraining order not the girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flozfzx Posted June 23, 2015 Author Share Posted June 23, 2015 Should i send her a polite text message. Telling her i apologize for blowing up her phone. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2015 Share Posted June 23, 2015 There's no need. What is the point of keeping in contact, even to apologize? You said me or him. She picked him. Yet you are still trying to find a justification to stay connected to her. Why? What do you get out of it? Reclaim your self esteem & move on Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flozfzx Posted June 23, 2015 Author Share Posted June 23, 2015 (edited) She keeps telling me shes going to leave him should i just follow her inti that abyss in becoming second plate? But your right i just gotta let her be if she wants to come back great if not then just pick myself up and move on. Edited June 23, 2015 by Flozfzx Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted June 24, 2015 Share Posted June 24, 2015 How would you feel if she'd done the same to you? flirting with her Ex behind your back for 4 month, planing to leave you without telling you? She's a cheater and hypocrite. She said you're sabotaging things because you actually did sabotage her plan to play with 2 guys feelings at the same time. If you take her back when she's single, she will do the same to you in the future because that's who she is. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 She's playing you. Cut all ties to her, she isn't good for anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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