ird Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 Okay so hi. I was dumped by a long term boyfriend and stupidly immediately went to OLD and found another dude to break my heart. Alright LS sit back for a second, this guy is: -handsome as lucifer -smart as hell -could romance the pants off of anyone -mentally abusive from what i can tell -indecisive -9 years older than me We dated for a week. I somehow fell head over heels for him, I have no idea how or why. Unrequited feelings from my past breakup being transferred into this "relationship?" My own mental insecurities? If you'd like more info feel free to look at my 3 "post here instead of texting your ex" thread. The posts are pretty pathetic but they're chalk full of my feelings. This guy and I have "broken up" a couple of times always due to the fact that I'm very insecure. He'll never text me, or stop texting me, and it could be for days that he'll ignore me. He works an incredibly busy job and he is kinda past the constant phone in hand phase (he's 27.) When he isn't texting me I assume he's talking to other women, purposely ignoring me because he wants nothing to do with me, or maybe he's just busy/wants to chill out. He seems as if he only wants sex from me over text, but when we're in person he wants to do all these weird romantic things, ie; hold hands, kiss, hug, embrace, cuddle, "talk." I don't know what to think anymore. It sounds pathetic and horrible but i want to fix this relationship more than anything else. I'm going to a therapist soon enough to talk about my depression/anxiety and hopefully that will help me resolve my insecurities. Thoughts? Comments on how stupid I am? Support? Advice? maybe i'm just venting. i dunno anymore. You'd really have to refer to my little blog posts in the "post here instead of talking to ex yada yada" thread to really understand the whole disgusting situation. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 You are 18 & he's a player who is playing you like a violin. He's all about games. The whole sexting thing but not IRL is plain odd. I get that he's cute & you like the attention but having been there & done that, I promise by the time you are his age you will realize he probably wasn't all that smart but right now he's more worldly then you are. Since you already know he's abusive, staying makes masochistic. Link to post Share on other sites
pidgeon1010 Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 He's not looking for anything serious and is probably dating several women. Disappearing for days while in a relationship is unacceptable. A busy job is no excuse. It takes seconds to text someone. This guys is a shady individual and when someone acts shady, there’s one of two things generally happening. 1.) He’s hiding something 2.) He doesn’t feel he has to answer to you. Neither of which are signs of a genuine budding relationship. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ariess10 Posted June 25, 2015 Share Posted June 25, 2015 Oh when will the young ins realize that dating is a lot more deeper than just looks and what the person has .... Chalk it up to being young and move on Link to post Share on other sites
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