glamtran Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 So my friend set me up with a guy she knew. We dated for a little while and for his bday and we went to a strip club. He had a bit of a past there and spent a good part of the night cuddling with one of his "friends" who danced there at our table and then went into the private rooms with her and another stripper. So stupidly I tried to hang in there with him but eventually bailed. We took a break once before that and my friend reached out to him to check if he was ok. She's known me for way longer and we were way closer like sisters for years. She new him for maybe a year prior? And as more of an acquaintance. I've learned through the grapevine that she is still talking with him and even saying how great he is deep down and how she cares about him. That's a little tasteless after we've traveled together and literally have cried on each other's shoulders over the years (her and I). I know I can't choose her friends but here's the thing: where I live, strippers are cheap relatively and get fully nude on stage and in the rooms. Whatever happens behind the curtains happens. I believe in the states they are just topless and relatively regulated and cost a fortune. So he did do some pretty egregious things here and she was there that night too and saw it herself. This must be a factor. I'm upset at him still and more so my friend. Will time heal this? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 26, 2015 Share Posted June 26, 2015 No. Time does nothing but pass. YOU 'heal'. And it's up to you how far that goes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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