women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear

[Phoe]

So it's a bit like "Wait, I'm attractive, I'm desireable! What gives.. WHY ISN'T HE FALLING ALL OVER ME!". That forms the roots of the initial hook that gets a woman to start paying more attention.

 

Your post definitely has some interesting points regarding rejection, definitely got me thinking more.

 

In regards to what I quoted above though... in my mind I'd think "He's not interested, and that's his right. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. No point in wasting my time, moving on!" I'd be quite glad that someone who isn't into me weeded himself out right off the bat to save us both time.

 

Because to me, there's nothing wrong with someone not liking me. It's perfectly normal and expected. I see absolutely no point in questioning or trying to change that. People like what they like!

[neowulf]

Your post definitely has some interesting points regarding rejection, definitely got me thinking more.

 

In regards to what I quoted above though... in my mind I'd think "He's not interested, and that's his right. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. No point in wasting my time, moving on!" I'd be quite glad that someone who isn't into me weeded himself out right off the bat to save us both time.

 

Because to me, there's nothing wrong with someone not liking me. It's perfectly normal and expected. I see absolutely no point in questioning or trying to change that. People like what they like!

 

I completely get where you're coming from.

 

Much like advertising doesn't "work" on everyone to the same degree, I believe this kind of "subtle rejection" doesn't trigger for all people.

 

Your response is from the mind of a clearly secure individual, who understands their value and that rejection need not be a personal insult

 

Not everyone is so fortunate

[bachdude]

I'm currently reading a book and saw this as well

 

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/02/110207142623.htm

 

I can't help but think this is untrue.. I asked this question on a few places and many women said not true..

 

What does LS think about this?

 

I'm sure Dr. Love of askmen.com would say, "See I told you so!"

 

I'm sure this works for certain people. But it needs to be kept in mind, as the article sates, that this study contradicts other studies. I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket here.