laluna Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 I have logged on here before and gotten good advice so here goes. Over the past few months I have spent alot of time with a male friend who I have been getting close to because we were both trying to get over breakups, he was my "bitter buddy". I have always been attracted to him, even when I was with my last boyfriend, but nothing ever happened, from what I understand the attraction, as least physically, was mutual. Things led to things last weekend and we ended up hooking up. Not sex, but quite intimate none the less. Before i got a chace to talk to him and figure out anything out in my head he told a friend of ours that we had talked about it and that we agreed it was only a one time thing and that neither one of us was ready for a realtionshp anyway.We talked some, but i was not sure that we had figured anything out. As I was trying to figure out if I should talk to him or not, he met someone. He has known her for less than a week, but this is the first time in months that he is excited about someone. I don't want to take that away from him, but I am really not sure how i feel about him. maybe I am just more hurt because he is not excited about me. I also have had problems getting over my ex-boyfriend and maybe I was secretly hoping for something new and exciting. Any advice. Should I talk to him, what do I tell him, or just let it die and let him be happy. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 If you feel you have the courage to talk to him, do it. You won't lose anything. You might gain something! Even if he rejects you, you can still be friends (if YOU want that). Make sure he doesn't start dating both of you at a time! Link to post Share on other sites
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