TigerWoods Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 (edited) I'm a regular married guy who has seen a lot of men cheat (50+), including myself on numerous occasions. So when it comes to men and cheating, I'd say that I'm fairly knowledgeable. By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. Men are simple creatures and if you lay us right (and regularly) then you can walk all over us. However if you don't lay us right, then we're a lot more tempted to get it elsewhere. It's that simple. And so I shake my head in utter disbelief when I see wives/gfs get lazy, throw out their sexy outfit(s), fake head aches and stop going down on their hubby/bf. All while believing that their partners will remain utterly faithful and not cheat. Talk about women in denial of reality. Edited June 29, 2015 by TigerWoods Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I suggest you get all your cheating buddies together and go visit some high-class escorts in Vegas, and leave the good, trustworthy, loving, affectionate, reliable, devoted sincere and extremely sexy guys to us. Because when a man KNOWS how to make a lady feel, he has pure gold in his arms right there. Women go off guys because the guys they go off are such a bunch of losers who only think with their lower portions, and don't stop to consider how fat, out-of-shape, lazy, lethargic, inconsiderate, complacent and boring they've become. QED by your post. 11 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I suggest you get all your cheating buddies together and go visit some high-class escorts in Vegas, and leave the good, trustworthy, loving, affectionate, reliable, devoted sincere and extremely sexy guys to us. Because when a man KNOWS how to make a lady feel, he has pure gold in his arms right there. Women go off guys because the guys they go off are such a bunch of losers who only think with their lower portions, and don't stop to consider how fat, out-of-shape, lazy, lethargic, inconsiderate, complacent and boring they've become. QED by your post. And the women who don't fake headaches and want it more than their husbands? How is it the woman's fault in that situation. No. Really. Please tell us how it's all of our fault that you can't keep your dick from getting stuck in random holes? It's amazing more men like you don't lose them in swimming pool filters. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Why men cheat Their brain says "I want to" and their penis says "with this one". It's not rocket science, rather one of the simplest choices one can make. Sure, all the rest of the relationship stuff can be complex, convoluted and 'complicated', but the final 'why' is pretty simple. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
I4givehim Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I'm a regular married guy who has seen a lot of men cheat (50+), including myself on numerous occasions. So when it comes to men and cheating, I'd say that I'm fairly knowledgeable. By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. Men are simple creatures and if you lay us right (and regularly) then you can walk all over us. However if you don't lay us right, then we're a lot more tempted to get it elsewhere. It's that simple. And so I shake my head in utter disbelief when I see wives/gfs get lazy, throw out their sexy outfit(s), fake head aches and stop going down on their hubby/bf. All while believing that their partners will remain utterly faithful and not cheat. Talk about women in denial of reality. That over 50 club you belong to..... maybe if your d**ks worked better us women wouldn't fake a headache. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I guess men cheat because they basically want to, and the stereotype wife with headaches who isn't giving him sex, is a convenient person to blame. "He is really a good guy but his wife isn't giving him sex, what is a guy to do?" Cheat obviously... Truth is he isn't a good guy, he is a weak, narcissistic, conflict avoider being led by his d*ck. He is hurting all those around him including his OW, but according to him he is oh so justified... 7 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Wasn't the excuse Tiger Woods used for his cheating, the fact that he is a 'sex addict'...? How is being a sex addict the fault of the woman...? He was even in therapy at a clinic, but stopped his treatment. Apparently he sees sex as a mere stress-reliever, nothing emotional about it. So I guess we could say that the OP is up to the usual games that a lying, cheating sex-addict resorts to: Emotionless projection, transparent excuses and blame-shifting. Done. NEXT!! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TigerWoods Posted June 29, 2015 Author Share Posted June 29, 2015 The men who I've seen cheat include all kinds, including good, trustworthy, loving, affectionate, reliable, devoted sincere guys. I understand why some women strongly dispute and refuse to accept that. Their lives are much simpler if men are simply "good" or "evil". Their lives gets a lot harder if they admit that their lack of effort in the bedroom dramatically increases the chance their husband/bf will cheat on them. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. No. The most common reason why people cheat is because they're selfish and think only of themselves. Period. Fin. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Hopefully you all leave for entire weekends to meet other women. This way the favourite justification of cheating married women - "He isn't paying enough attention to me" - starts to take hold and they'll get a little extra fun for themselves. Fairness for all. I just really wonder how OWs put up with all the whining. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Elias33 Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Same reason why women cheat. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I'm a regular married guy who has seen a lot of men cheat (50+), including myself on numerous occasions. So when it comes to men and cheating, I'd say that I'm fairly knowledgeable. By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. Men are simple creatures and if you lay us right (and regularly) then you can walk all over us. However if you don't lay us right, then we're a lot more tempted to get it elsewhere. It's that simple. And so I shake my head in utter disbelief when I see wives/gfs get lazy, throw out their sexy outfit(s), fake head aches and stop going down on their hubby/bf. All while believing that their partners will remain utterly faithful and not cheat. Talk about women in denial of reality. I kinda don't like the attitude that's coming across here, but I understand what you are saying. While it is selfish to simply go out and cheat when a man isn't having his needs met, the woman usually shares responsibility for causing that. Women do withhold sex as a weapon or tool of manipulation. That being said, men often do not communicate effectively with women and women need that like men need sex. Being withholding about or not communicating effectively with a woman makes her feel the same way a man feels when she withholds sex -- unwanted, insecure, insignificant, confused and immaculated or for women, unattractive and not feminine. It is a two way street. So a man or woman who just goes out and cheats without communicating their needs and giving the other the opportunity to demonstrate that they understand and want to accommodate those needs, is simply lazy and selfish because they can't deal with conflict or even bother to try to resolve it. If they have communicated their needs and they aren't being met, you tell the partner you're moving on. You don't cheat. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Rejected Rosebud Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 People cheat because of their own weaknesses. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamworld Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I'm a regular married guy who has seen a lot of men cheat (50+), including myself on numerous occasions. So when it comes to men and cheating, I'd say that I'm fairly knowledgeable. By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. Men are simple creatures and if you lay us right (and regularly) then you can walk all over us. However if you don't lay us right, then we're a lot more tempted to get it elsewhere. It's that simple. And so I shake my head in utter disbelief when I see wives/gfs get lazy, throw out their sexy outfit(s), fake head aches and stop going down on their hubby/bf. All while believing that their partners will remain utterly faithful and not cheat. Talk about women in denial of reality. Serial cheaters will cheat. They could have the hottest wives willing to do anything for them and they still go out and cheat. I was married to one. And we were having regular sex. Like all the time. Yet he just couldnt get enough. Cheating is a choice. Sure, there are sides to everything leading to it but ultimately it is a choice. And weak and cowardly people I think choose to cheat. Strong people, they either try to talk and work it out or leave the relationship. No matter the circumstance, the cheater chooses to cheat. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I'm a regular married guy who has seen a lot of men cheat (50+), including myself on numerous occasions. So when it comes to men and cheating, I'd say that I'm fairly knowledgeable. By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. Men are simple creatures and if you lay us right (and regularly) then you can walk all over us. However if you don't lay us right, then we're a lot more tempted to get it elsewhere. It's that simple. And so I shake my head in utter disbelief when I see wives/gfs get lazy, throw out their sexy outfit(s), fake head aches and stop going down on their hubby/bf. All while believing that their partners will remain utterly faithful and not cheat. Talk about women in denial of reality. Then why get married? You're dishonest in inducing someone to marry you if you have not told her that you believe that there are justifications for cheating and what they are. Be honest with your spouse and be honest with yourself. I doubt that many people, men or women, would marry someone who thought the way you do. Most people want to marry someone who believes that honesty and mutual effort is required in a marriage. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamworld Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Man all of a sudden I feel hopeless about dating. Issues with cheating with other women, issues with "cheating" with pornography. Maybe I should just stay single and just casually date for the rest of my life 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Eighty_nine Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 You know, some wives do neglect their husbands and think they should just be cool with no sex. Should we just ignore this part of the equation? No, it doesn't mean it's OK to cheat, btw. But people hate acknowledging that SOMETIMES someone other than the cheater played a role in their bad decision. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Eighty_nine Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Man all of a sudden I feel hopeless about dating. Issues with cheating with other women, issues with "cheating" with pornography. Maybe I should just stay single and just casually date for the rest of my life cheating with porn? please. women with major issues with porn have no right to be in a relationship. porn is not a threat to a real, live, loving woman. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 You know, some wives do neglect their husbands and think they should just be cool with no sex. Should we just ignore this part of the equation? No, it doesn't mean it's OK to cheat, btw. But people hate acknowledging that SOMETIMES someone other than the cheater played a role in their bad decision. If the cheater is unhappy with little or no sex, then he needs to get out of the marriage or he needs to sit down and seriously discuss with his wife how to address that issue. The decision to actually cheat, ie to lie to and to betray his wife, is one he alone makes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
camillalev Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 And what are YOU doing to keep THEM interested? Do you keep yourselves In shape, take them out to dinner, do you genuinely make them feel like you enjoy their company or that they are appreciated? Or even go down on them just for their enjoyment, NOT just some lazy half attempt at oral just so you can get some action for yourself(women can always tell). This post smacks of entitlement. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I'm a regular married guy who has seen a lot of men cheat (50+), including myself on numerous occasions. So when it comes to men and cheating, I'd say that I'm fairly knowledgeable. By far the most common reason why men cheat is because their sex life and/or relationship at home is poor. Men are simple creatures and if you lay us right (and regularly) then you can walk all over us. However if you don't lay us right, then we're a lot more tempted to get it elsewhere. It's that simple. And so I shake my head in utter disbelief when I see wives/gfs get lazy, throw out their sexy outfit(s), fake head aches and stop going down on their hubby/bf. All while believing that their partners will remain utterly faithful and not cheat. Talk about women in denial of reality. On behalf of all women, I'll apologize for their slovenliness, laziness, and lack of passion and oral sex. Like you, I just don't get it. I mean, all you men put in SO much work to keep your ladies interested, right? From some of you shaving your heads to a shiny baldness and looking like one of the friggen ConeHeads so you can hide the fact that you're already balding at 30 right down to that paunch that hangs over your jeans when they're not unzipped. I just don't understand how a woman could possibly not be turned on by you laying back in your recliner with Cheese Doodle dust all over your t-shirt and fingers, your bald spot gleaming in the living room light, picking things out of your ears to examine up close, farting and belching and spending the whole night staring gape-jawed at the TV while she busts her ass around you cleaning up after dinner and getting the kids ready for bed. Truly. I don't get it. How could any woman resist that? I'll have a talk with the sisterhood and set them straight. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 And what are YOU doing to keep THEM interested? Do you keep yourselves In shape, take them out to dinner, do you genuinely make them feel like you enjoy their company or that they are appreciated? Or even go down on them just for their enjoyment, NOT just some lazy half attempt at oral just so you can get some action for yourself(women can always tell). This post smacks of entitlement. ROFL! Most of them just make sure their nose hair isn't touching their top lips. If it's not, they're good to go. Please don't use big words like 'foreplay' and 'enjoyment,' because you'll confuse the OP. Thank you. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamworld Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 cheating with porn? please. women with major issues with porn have no right to be in a relationship. porn is not a threat to a real, live, loving woman. It does become an issue when masturbating to porn takes precedent over sex with the real, live, loving woman, ( there are hundreds of articles on this and numerous threads here) but this may get off topic so I will leave it at that. I actually really like porn 1 Link to post Share on other sites
deadelvis Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Anyone who cheats is a real turd of a human. That's my opinion anyway. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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