Lois_Griffin Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 PS I am So torn up I won't even ask him to answer the question of how long it's been going on. But what I do know is that I have been traveling for my job for the past 3 years! Wowie! I'm sure his answer would be a lie anyway. I hate to say it, but it's probably a lot more than just a hand job. Most of these 'massage' ads are thinly veiled ads for escorts, plain and simple. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 PS I am So torn up I won't even ask him to answer the question of how long it's been going on. But what I do know is that I have been traveling for my job for the past 3 years! Wowie! I'm sure his answer would be a lie anyway. You do not mention kids, I am assuming you don't have any. But kids or not, go see an attorney, find out your rights. He may even be consulting his own attorney, as his little secret is now revealed and you are closing down the sex. Be one step ahead. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
LivingDeadGrl Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 I am so so sorry this is happening to you! I can't imagine how disgusted you must be. I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole. Personally I don't think I could ever look at my partner the same way again. If he was that sexually frustrated then he should have communicated it to you, but I don't think it has anything to do with that. He is selfish and wanted variety is my guess. He just didn't think you would find out... I mean, I wonder how many HJ's and BJ's this woman gives on a daily basis? He could have brought any kind of disease back to you. If you plan on staying married to him, he needs to go get tested for STI's and go to counselling. Who knows how long this has been going on? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 he's completely untrustworthy. get rid of him .ir you will seriously regret investing in a life with him any further. doubt compromise the rest of yiir life because he wants to wave his disk all around Luke he just don't care. You can bet she hasn't been the only one and this is the tip of the iceberg. men who pay for it always minimize it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted July 9, 2015 Share Posted July 9, 2015 He's admitting to the bare minimum. If he's only just started going there , it might just be happy endings , but if it's been going on for a while , it's likely to be more. What made him decide to confess? The cold shoulder from you? Or maybe he needed time to get his story straight. Link to post Share on other sites
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