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Illusion24

The more I think about love the more my stomach turns...Love hurts...F*ck!!!

 

Monday: Hating Love and everything that goes with it!!!

 

*Just a thought of mine*....Any input? :(:o:confused:

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Mondays suck too... :laugh:

 

Sorry you're having not such a great day Girl...

 

I don't know... I always thought Love was the way you feel when you're with someone :confused:

The whole being a better person because of someone... but often I've found I'm a better person in spite of someone... son of a :eek: !

 

:laugh:

 

Hang in there ;)

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Illusion24

Yeah, I know what you mean...

 

Sometimes I feel as if I'm meant to be alone, FOREVER!!

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Illusion24

Alpha...

 

I read you're whole outlook on woman...pretty interesting, I can relate but not agree 100%

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Originally posted by NeverSayNever

Yeah, I know what you mean...

 

Sometimes I feel as if I'm meant to be alone, FOREVER!!

 

Nah.. This will pass GF.

 

You've been through some rough times lately you know?

I think everyone who goes through a recent break up feels this way from time to time even when it was you who ended the relationship...

 

More time will help sista... You won't be alone forever and you'll eventually meet someone new who makes you want to take the risk again...

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I hope you're right Merin...I know you've been through some s*** too...Cheers to US, woohoo!!! ;)

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Originally posted by NeverSayNever

I hope you're right Merin...I know you've been through some s*** too...Cheers to US, woohoo!!! ;)

 

I can say with 110% confidence that on this one.. I'm right! LOL Yay for being right! :laugh:

 

You will meet someone else Girl :)

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greenhorn
Originally posted by NeverSayNever

The more I think about love the more my stomach turns...Love hurts...F*ck!!!

 

Monday: Hating Love and everything that goes with it!!!

 

*Just a thought of mine*....Any input? :(:o:confused:

 

Hey NSN, what a co-incidence, just see my signature and it says exactly this ?? :)

 

and I put this signature a month back ...

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Illusion24

LOL...cool never really noticed...Interesting...Have you found the meaning yet??? When you do, please do tell!! I've lost the meaning somewhere and I can't find it :o

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Originally posted by NeverSayNever

The more I think about love the more my stomach turns...Love hurts...F*ck!!!

 

Monday: Hating Love and everything that goes with it!!!

 

*Just a thought of mine*....Any input? :(:o:confused:

 

It's not an investment - you shouldn't expect a nice return.

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It's our insecurities, I think, that make us question. Love hurts as much as you have scar tissue to overcome. It feels great when you are new to love, and there aren't as many old wounds that re-awaken and make us wince as we slowly remember what it is to feel that way. When you really care about someone you have something to lose. And that is scarey, at least to me.

 

But you have to remember. Love is a gift. As a gift, you can't ask for anything in return, not even an equal amount of love. That's what makes it so frightening and so exciting. Like a horror movie, you are filled with anxious expectation and a looming sense of uncomfortable dread. But at the same time, when you are relieved, when that person is the salve to your aching wounds, then it feels so deliciously good. When they make it easy to let the past be done, you feel wonderfully relieved.

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Originally posted by NeverSayNever

So, Merin's found someone else... ;) ??

 

Their is hope!!!

 

:laugh:

 

Merin has not found someone else.. Merin is still trying with her BF :laugh:

 

I just know how it goes sometimes... I was with my last BF for almost 2 years... He was a complete idiot and I ended the relationship... but even thought I knew he wasn't good for me it had become a habit, a bad habit I grant you.. but yeah I had become accustom to being with him.. make sense?

 

After I ended the relationship I felt that I would never meet anyone else... that it was all sh*tty and I didn't want to try again or risk anything again ever...

 

BUT

 

I've also found that it's sometimes when you're not looking or maybe even wanting a new relationship and you've decided the hell with it, You're good to go with what you've got going on right now.. it always seems to be thats exactly when someone else comes into your life and you find yourself taking risks again you had swore you wouldn't do again...

 

Never say never right?

 

LOL Hang in there honey...

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Originally posted by NeverSayNever

The more I think about love the more my stomach turns...Love hurts...F*ck!!!

 

Monday: Hating Love and everything that goes with it!!!

 

*Just a thought of mine*....Any input? :(:o:confused:

 

Been there -- recently.

 

Love sucks, sometimes. Had a rough time of it last night when I get the occasional reminders my companion and best friend isn't there anymore.

 

Sucks eggs. Royally.

 

Time will heal all though.

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Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. :love:

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True love is always being able to say you're sorry.

 

It is equal between the two parties. It is predictable and safe.

 

And.... of course it is patient and kind.

 

 

But, it is not love

-when you purposely hurt the other person.

-when you have to ignore the other person to get them to care.

-when you can't breathe without the other person. (that is obsession)

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Love is commitment, yet love is also a setting free. Love is personal yet universal. Love is mind and heart and body and soul, all at once somehow, so love is also totality, is it not?

Love is thought-provoking, yet without thought. Love is having everything and knowing nothing, yet it is knowing everything and having nothing too. Love is the closeness of togetherness, and love is the solitude of isolation.

Love is inspiration, intuition, joy. Yet it is also heartbreak and loneliness and solitude. Love is the trembling excitation of newness, and the shaking of the grief of loss. Love is a slow and steady pace, yet too, it is the exuberance that makes us want to run and dance and sing. Love is ecstasy and misery, sureness and confusion. Love makes us feel as if we could do anything, yet love also makes us feel like nothing at all at times. Love is being light-headed and dizzy, yet love is feeling heavy and as if about to die. Love is the slow and steady heart, yet the flutter of its racing too. It is freedom, yet it can also be the bars of a prison found deep within, can it not?

Love is the illusive moment of now and the memories of yesterday and the longing for tomorrow, all at once.

Love is ageless and timeless and without dimension, yet love is here and now in this moment of forever. Love is ancient and new and ever-becoming. Love is what we always and ever and never can have, for love is dynamic. Love is the worth and the meaning and the quality of hope and hopelessness. Love is the glory of enlightenment and the darkness of unknowing.

Love is the sleeping and the dreaming and the waking. Love is real and yet invisible, felt and yet the deepest mystery. Love is existence and its annihilation. Love is the question and the answer ever changing. Love is what we want to do and have to do and refuse to do. Love is pain and comfort too, the illness of disease and also its healing. Love is the beauty of perfection, yet the difference of disfiguration.

Love is the height and the depth and the width, yet love is immeasurable. Love is darkness, love is light. Love is emptiness and fullness, the yin and yang - forever and always distinct yet flowing within and through and with each other. Love is the yearning for life and the illusion of death. Love is continuance in time and time's obliteration. Love is its own beginning and ending and becoming.

Perhaps the only answer then, is this: Love Is. While in its allness and in its nothingness, we simply need to let it Be - in us…

 

 

 

 

DUH! :)

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Originally posted by NeverSayNever

Sometimes I feel as if I'm meant to be alone, FOREVER!!

 

Not true!!!!

 

But we have all had days like this... I'm sorry for you NSN. :(

 

Good definition HoldOn, as ever.

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when you can't breathe without the other person. (that is obsession)

 

So that's what that is, Obsession?!! I guess you're right

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blind_otter
Originally posted by NeverSayNever

So that's what that is, Obsession?!! I guess you're right

 

Yes, it is. My psycho ex said that a lot. I can't stop thinking about you, I can't get you out of my head, no matter who I'm with, who I'm f*cking, what I'm doing, I think about you all the time, blah blah blah. It was scarey.

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What is love?, is of course one of the questions for which there never has been given a fully satisfactory answer.

What "love" is to one person, may be deceit to another. I won't offer a philosophical essay on the subject, and why people think love hurts - in most cases they are mixing other things up with love. Obsession for instance.

 

I limit myself to a single quote: "What else is love but understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences otherwise than we do??" -- Friedrich Nietzsche

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Originally posted by blind_otter

Yes, it is. My psycho ex said that a lot. I can't stop thinking about you, I can't get you out of my head, no matter who I'm with, who I'm f*cking, what I'm doing, I think about you all the time, blah blah blah. It was scarey.

 

:eek: MG! We might have dated the same guy!

 

For real.. it is scary.

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Originally posted by Merin

:eek: MG! We might have dated the same guy!

 

For real.. it is scary.

 

Yeah. I only feel safe now that he is in jail being held w/o bond. when he gets out I will have to move, I can't avoid it. I will be too terrified to live anywhere that he knows I could be.

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