Jadey Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Im really quite annoyed right now. To make this as short as possible..I have been friends with 2 girls named Kirsty and Claire for 5 years now, since the begginin of high school. There used to only be afew of us that hung out together properly at school. We always had other friends but us 3 and my best friend Cheryl were ht eonly ones that really hung out like at lunchtimes, breaktimes, etc. Then this year Claire started to go out with a boy and we then started to hang out with all his friends, aload of us. Which wos fair enough. I started to fancy one of his best friends and in the end we got together. We all hung out happily..but Then Claire and him split up and so did me and my BF eventually. But we still continued to hanf with them all as we had made new friends. It wos obv really akward arounf the exes but we stayed. I helped her through her break up as best i culd, i wos there all the time listhening to her wailing and complaining, im training to be a shrink so its kinda in my blood to help out She wos thankful, or so i thought. Then it came to my break up with the ex and she wos so crap. She dwosnt there with a shoulder to cry on like i wos. Nothing except a "aww" and "its a shame" here and there and it would always go back to her and her break up. I bite my lip. Then i started to notice one the girls from the group wos realllly flirting with my ex. I told Claire this and she got really deffensice and saif im just seeing things. Im not. She has admitted thatshe does fancy my ex. But claire refuses to admit that she does and alwas sticks up for her. I confronted the flirting girl in a reasonable mannor just asking if she could maybe back away abit as i really want my bf back. She told him and Claire this and claire got really angry with me. But after a day or 2 we made up. Then she told me she is having a sleepover for her party and im invited but so is rhiannon (the flirt) i said i would like to go and will try my hardest to be civil with Rhiannon. So all seemed well. But then tension grew between me and rhiannon bad and she must have said something to claire cos she wos pratically ignoring me and would go and sit and hang with rhiannon over me. I got upset and said i wont bother going to her sleepover rhiannon can just go. She said fine. I wos hurt over this but decided i wouldnt make a big scene. Then yesterday i came online and Kirstys boyfriend IMd me telling me he had met Joe. Him, claire, kirsty, rhiannon, and some others had met up at the cinema and seen a movie together. Without me even knowig. Now is it just me or is thta pretty cold? He says that one of the girls im not friends with had arranges it but i know for a fact if i wos claire or kirsty i would have invited me along or atleast just let me know they are going out with Joe and Rhiaanon is gonna be there. Basically Rhiannon has came first before our 5 year friendship. They been friends for like 3 months if that! Would you be hurt? I ahvent spoken to anyone since i found out. SAHould i bite my lip or wot? Link to post Share on other sites
lOvE_bUnnY20 Posted May 3, 2005 Share Posted May 3, 2005 I had similar problems with some B*i*t*c*h*s. But we have been going to school together for 8 years and they disobayed me and told the whole school that I had sex with every guy on the football team. But anyway...you should just hang out with all your other friends, they dont have 2 be the best of friends but they will be there. And just hold out and your "friends" may come back saying sorry, or if not just forget them...they arent real friends anyway. A real friend would help you when you were hurt. And a real friend wouldnt stick up for some onhe else when she knows that person is wrong and you are right. Just forget them and have a good time in life. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted May 3, 2005 Share Posted May 3, 2005 Its simple. Her ex is in the group and so is yours. She is still trying to get her ex back and stay in the group and shes not going to let anything get in her way including you. Shes is going to keep being friends with rhiannon because in order to stay in the group and xcontinue to be around her ex. Its sad but when it comes to guys sometimes..friends change. Nothing else matters. Its sad but atleast now you know that shes not really a true friend and you can find someone who will listen to you and help you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jadey Posted May 15, 2005 Author Share Posted May 15, 2005 Wow im glad you said that EC. That akes so much sense. Thank you. Im still going to hang around with the group but im gonna be less frienfly with her.. Link to post Share on other sites
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