sportygirl89 Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I thought his personality and everything resembled of someone I'm familiar with. Then I was like he is my Mr. Big. Don't worry I've gone out on dates this week and have some set up. I'm not waiting around for Mr. Big to make his decision. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
casey.lives Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Been there.. :/ Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Oh gosh, I never saw what Carrie saw in him... He was an insecure loser who was greasy... I mean, the dude would surround himself with "models" who were brainless, clueless, and half his age; and, even though he ended up marrying a "classy, rich girl" she was still half his age and had nothing going on for her (except probably her family's money); His first marriage failed because he had a wandering eye; He was too scared to take on a real woman - Samantha; He always wants what he can't have; I mean, when Carrie moved on - each and every time he wanted her again and she'd go back only to get dissed... What's sexy about that? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Share Posted July 5, 2015 Oh gosh, I never saw what Carrie saw in him... He was an insecure loser who was greasy... I mean, the dude would surround himself with "models" who were brainless, clueless, and half his age; and, even though he ended up marrying a "classy, rich girl" she was still half his age and had nothing going on for her (except probably her family's money); His first marriage failed because he had a wandering eye; He was too scared to take on a real woman - Samantha; He always wants what he can't have; I mean, when Carrie moved on - each and every time he wanted her again and she'd go back only to get dissed... What's sexy about that? I know most guys I've been with have moved mountains to be with me. But if at 35 he is single and can't keep a relationship would he ever end up finding one is the question or be a bachelor for life? I shouldn't have to tell the guy anything to make him move mountains etc. I don't get how guys get like that. I know his father died either high school or college. Usually that makes people tend to want to find the perfect family IMO. But idk, I have to realize everyone doesn't think realistically (unfortunately). Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I am embarrassed to say that I have never seen "Sex in the City", so I don't know what the characters act like, even though I know their names just from hearing people mention them so much. Was just never drawn to watching it. Link to post Share on other sites
impatiently_patient Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I am embarrassed to say that I have never seen "Sex in the City", so I don't know what the characters act like, even though I know their names just from hearing people mention them so much. Was just never drawn to watching it. I thought we were talking about the band. Was thinking, "Yeah, cheesedick songwriting, but Paul Gilbert seems to be a really nice guy." *retains his man card 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Share Posted July 5, 2015 I am embarrassed to say that I have never seen "Sex in the City", so I don't know what the characters act like, even though I know their names just from hearing people mention them so much. Was just never drawn to watching it. It was filmed either early 1990s or 2000s. It was portraying women trying to find that big love in the city from four view points who happen to all be best friends (another unrealistic goal that four females can be best friends). I'll give people a clue that sex is talked about a lot in show (Carrie does some type of newspaper column about it). At first he comes off as charming when they first meet. Then when he got comfortable he had the wandering eye. Even when in relationships that were good for them. They would always somehow mess it up with each other. He is very wealthy and older than her. Ultimately they try to find a way back to each other. So really the whole show is unrealistic. But its a good show for friendship, bad for showing relationship. Four girls from different cliques may work. But from the same rarely does it work. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I am embarrassed to say that I have never seen "Sex in the City", so I don't know what the characters act like, even though I know their names just from hearing people mention them so much. Was just never drawn to watching it. He's a d*ck. He's hot & cold, push & pull. He is honestly a cocky jerk, used to getting what he wants. But he is hot & rich & powerful. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I thought we were talking about the band. Was thinking, "Yeah, cheesedick songwriting, but Paul Gilbert seems to be a really nice guy." *retains his man card *sings* I'm the one who wants to be with youuuu... Deep inside I hope you feel it toooo... Waiting on the line of dreams and blues... Just to be the next to be with youuuu.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted July 6, 2015 Author Share Posted July 6, 2015 Part of me wants to point it out because he has seen the show. See what he says about it. I know this was a holiday weekend but no reason to not speak to me the entire weekend. He fits the description of Mr. Big to the T. If he's 35 and never been in a long term relationship. I understand he lost his father at teens/college year but that doesn't give him the right to treat women like crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted July 6, 2015 Author Share Posted July 6, 2015 I figured I would ignore him the amount of time he has ignored me. Mostly if anything to tell him I'm done playing his games and that I'm out. I'm giving him a few days as it was a holiday weekend to make sure I'm not overthinking anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 Oh gosh, I never saw what Carrie saw in him... He was an insecure loser who was greasy... I mean, the dude would surround himself with "models" who were brainless, clueless, and half his age; and, even though he ended up marrying a "classy, rich girl" she was still half his age and had nothing going on for her (except probably her family's money); His first marriage failed because he had a wandering eye; He was too scared to take on a real woman - Samantha; He always wants what he can't have; I mean, when Carrie moved on - each and every time he wanted her again and she'd go back only to get dissed... What's sexy about that? Go figure when I tell him I have been on dates and more dates to come he actually becomes interested. Unless he moves mountains he is out of the question. Link to post Share on other sites
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