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ok am i considered a player:

 

i like to talk and be freindly with girls-not just one girl-any girl who seems receptive and nice. i usually initiate,but if they show some effoprt i will be freindly back to em. you could call this freindlyness fliritng a little too.

 

this it directed at not just one girl but others too:

my flirtiness includes: winks, smiles and winks, hi (her name) and followed by a smile,compliments on her good grade she got in that class-:wow ur smart tahts a very good mark, waves-as to say hello or good bye, compliments on her clothing attire-"i like shoes-they are nike shoxs-their expensive hey-ah but ur worth it and a smile with it and , u have good taste. at times i hold my smile longer than usual. i also give out eyebrow raises as i smile-is this ok. telling the girl i like her b/c she easy to talk to and nice and maybe at possibnel to hang out with her.

example this girl i like is in 2 of the same classes i am in too i say" ah we have 2 classes together , thats great it must be fate". or i say "i am so happy we have 2 classes together that means we can study together"

anyother ways i can also be a flirt or a better one-examples please-i am a rookie.

 

what is a tease and what would a tease do-give some examples please .

what also do they mean by a guy being playful-some examples.

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ReluctantRomeo
Originally posted by joel

what is a tease and what would a tease do-give some examples please .

what also do they mean by a guy being playful-some examples.

 

IMHO, it's great to be friendly, flirty and fun. It's not ok to be unkind or mess with a girl's heart. Sometimes the line between the 2 can be a little blurry - as guys, we don't always realise how they're thinking or feeling.

 

Being a *player* means treating romance and sex as entirely a game - play one girl then onto the next. No emotional contact, no respect for her heart. That's wrong.

 

I guess the bottom line is - are the girls having fun too, or are you leaving a string of broken hearts?

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silverspring

No, I don't think you're a player. Sounds like you're having good, clean fun with these girls. Players, in my opinion, are idiotic, immature, and unintelligent men who only look out for themselves and have no respect for women what-so-ever. Examples are rappers on music videos that refer to women using degrading terms. They're not putting on an act, that's they're actual life style. They view women as playthings.

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MWC_LifeBeginsAt40

oh my god I think I'm a player. Only online though, on video dating sites. Does that count?

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It does not sound as though you are using women for your own gain and pleasure; you don't appear to be a 'player'. I think the word you are looking for is 'flirtacious'.

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