misspond Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 I'm 5'11" lol I know, I read your other thread. All I'm saying is women who have a height stipulation will be missing out because they're not willing to get to know the person inside the package Link to post Share on other sites
Sarabi Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 I'm 5'3". With or without heels, the majority of people are taller than me, I have no preference or stipulation. No I am not fussy...Men never choose me...so, its easier to go shopping for shoes Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Ok, so a hot desirable woman puts on her profile <5'11 men need not apply. If as a man you are say 6', do you then pass and think what a superficial, shallow woman? Do you feel the need to stick up in solidarity for your fellow short men? OR Do you go YES! and think, "yah boo sucks to you shorty, I meet the grade, I get the girl." Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 If a man puts <size 6, >C cup, >.6 hip to waist ratio, do you contact him if you fit the dimensions or are you turned off? Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 If a man puts <size 6, >C cup, >.6 hip to waist ratio, do you contact him if you fit the dimensions or are you turned off? All the above are preferences. I don't fit them. Oh well. Next At least, that is what I would think a healthy person would do Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 All the above are preferences. I don't fit them. Oh well. Next At least, that is what I would think a healthy person would do What I meant was if a guy puts no big girls or 150lbs limit or something like that. That won't come off to well to women who meet the standard. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 If a man puts <size 6, >C cup, >.6 hip to waist ratio, do you contact him if you fit the dimensions or are you turned off? I know that my husband prefers small, thin women. Guess what, I'm small and thin! It's not really a coincidence, and no, it doesn't turn me off that he has that preference. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 What I meant was if a guy puts no big girls or 150lbs limit or something like that. That won't come off to well to women who meet the standard. It would all depend on how he phrased it, for me at least. If he said "I prefer slim girls who are in good shape and work out," then no biggie. If he said "Fatties over 150 keep walking," I'd think he was a jerk lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sarabi Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 If a man puts <size 6, >C cup, >.6 hip to waist ratio, do you contact him if you fit the dimensions or are you turned off? American 6 or UK 6? lol... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Love a good LS height debate... I'm 5'2 so I kinda have to wear heels most of time - well, I don't really have to, but I love wearing them (the higher the better ). My BF is 5'8 and I've never heard him comment on my heel-wearing habit; probs because he doesn't care. Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 If a man puts <size 6, >C cup, >.6 hip to waist ratio, do you contact him if you fit the dimensions or are you turned off? Actually a lot of men will put that they want curvy build, athletic build, etc. So yeah, they are putting similar things. Link to post Share on other sites
Tribble Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 It would all depend on how he phrased it, for me at least. If he said "I prefer slim girls who are in good shape and work out," then no biggie. If he said "Fatties over 150 keep walking," I'd think he was a jerk lol Yep, agree. It also says something about the way you live your life I.e. Like to work out, that signals more of a compatibility thing. The issue with weight though, it changes. If I fit the defined parameters I still probably next anyway. I'd worry that if my weight changed in the future, for whatever reason, I no longer fit their preference and they wouldn't be attracted to me any more. Height doesn't change. If someone put that they prefer someone who likes to work out and didn't mention slim or anything, that wouldn't put me off. I love to work out. Although I like taller guys, I'd never put it on an OLD profile though. Seems a little odd. I'm after a person, not a defined set of measurements lol. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Actually a lot of men will put that they want curvy build, athletic build, etc. So yeah, they are putting similar things. That's minor. Look we're all superficial to a degree, some are just over the top shallow. "She was pretty and nice, but only a C cup. She was a size 6, not a size 3. She's a year over 30." That's more like the equivalent. Now imagine if every guy online was like that. Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 That's minor. Look we're all superficial to a degree, some are just over the top shallow. "She was pretty and nice, but only a C cup. She was a size 6, not a size 3. She's a year over 30." That's more like the equivalent. Now imagine if every guy online was like that. Then I guess I wouldn't be dating any of them. Oh wait, I am a C cup...how important is that....lol Look, I am not going to whine someone into changing what they want. And do I really want some man I had to whine or bully or guilt or bitter into giving me a chance? No In real life, men seem to like thin, ample-breasted, petite women who look awesome with no makeup and no cellulite. I can rail against it and probe for some deep conspiracy, or I can put on my big girl panties and deal with the reality in front of me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
S_A Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Ok, so a hot desirable woman puts on her profile <5'11 men need not apply. If as a man you are say 6', do you then pass and think what a superficial, shallow woman? No. Do you feel the need to stick up in solidarity for your fellow short men? No. Link to post Share on other sites
S_A Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 (edited) If a man puts <size 6, >C cup, >.6 hip to waist ratio, do you contact him if you fit the dimensions or are you turned off? Height is not the same as those things. Those things are not as discernible as height. Height is almost like hair color in that it is easy to discern; don't need to see the person's most recent physical to know officially what their height and hair color is. Waist size? You're gonna' need official measurements. A girl that says "6ft and above only", is essentially saying "no short guys". Well, wtf does "no short guys" mean? She puts a nuneric value (6ft in our example) so people understand what her interpretation of short is (to some, short may start at 5'8"). She isn't being shallow. She isn't going to measure your height on the date, so if you're 5'11 you're probably fine (unless she is close to, or at 5'11" herself). Edited July 8, 2015 by S_A Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 (edited) Then I guess I wouldn't be dating any of them. Oh wait, I am a C cup...how important is that....lol Look, I am not going to whine someone into changing what they want. And do I really want some man I had to whine or bully or guilt or bitter into giving me a chance? No In real life, men seem to like thin, ample-breasted, petite women who look awesome with no makeup and no cellulite. I can rail against it and probe for some deep conspiracy, or I can put on my big girl panties and deal with the reality in front of me. But you don't seem to be having problem finding men who like you. It's not to guilt or change anybody's mind. The point is, if that was the only thing men were attracted, if you couldn't find just a few guys who find you attractive and were decent looking themselves. If every average Joe wouldn't date anything less than a what you described, then you gals would be roarings. And S A I don't agree with your first paragraph. Those things are very obvious, just like height, yet not too much a concern for most men. Take yourself a trip down the L.A. mall and observe the couples. You'll 10 cute guys with pretty girls, 10 ugly with ugly, 10 average and average, 1 ugly/average guy with a hottie and 3 average thin guys with big girls. Of all different heights. Edited July 8, 2015 by jay1983 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 That's minor. Look we're all superficial to a degree, some are just over the top shallow. "She was pretty and nice, but only a C cup. She was a size 6, not a size 3. She's a year over 30." That's more like the equivalent. Now imagine if every guy online was like that. Age thing, guys definitely write. And the ages are always younger than them (once they are over 35). Guys are just as superficial, make no mistake. Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Age thing, guys definitely write. And the ages are always younger than them (once they are over 35). Guys are just as superficial, make no mistake. Then who are women over 35 dating? Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Then who are women over 35 dating? All sorts of guys. Just like shorter guys date all sorts of women. But that's not necessarily reflected in OLD profiles. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 But you don't seem to be having problem finding men who like you. It's not to guilt or change anybody's mind. The point is, if that was the only thing men were attracted, if you couldn't find just a few guys who find you attractive and were decent looking themselves. If every average Joe wouldn't date anything less than a what you described, then you gals would be roarings. And S A I don't agree with your first paragraph. Those things are very obvious, just like height, yet not too much a concern for most men. Take yourself a trip down the L.A. mall and observe the couples. You'll 10 cute guys with pretty girls, 10 ugly with ugly, 10 average and average, 1 ugly/average guy with a hottie and 3 average thin guys with big girls. Of all different heights. IF this were the case, I would cry, probably be mad, and then decide whether to be alone or diet lol Bottom line? That isn't the case, just like it isn't the case that no women will date shorter men. Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 IF this were the case, I would cry, probably be mad, and then decide whether to be alone or diet lol Bottom line? That isn't the case, just like it isn't the case that no women will date shorter men. Well they ain't online, that's for damn sure. lol Link to post Share on other sites
S_A Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 And S A I don't agree with your first paragraph. Those things are very obvious, just like height, yet not too much a concern for most men. Take yourself a trip down the L.A. mall and observe the couples. You'll 10 cute guys with pretty girls, 10 ugly with ugly, 10 average and average, 1 ugly/average guy with a hottie and 3 average thin guys with big girls. Of all different heights. I know LA very well. Seeing couples at the mall or wherever gives me no insight as to how the two came to choose each other. They may have met online, and the woman may have set a height requirement. What I see 95% of the time is that the guy is taller. And for all of you jumping on women for having a height requirement, I, as a guy, have one too. I'm 6'2" and I wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman who is 6'1" or more. 6ft? Maybe. Ideally she can't be more than 5'11". "But her height has nothing to do with her personality!" Yeah, I'm aware. We could still be friends though! Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 It's crazy how shallow women are about height with old..If 90% of men's profiles had the equivalent where they demanded flat stomachs and d cups the social justice warrior feminists would want men's heads on a platter.. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 I know LA very well. Seeing couples at the mall or wherever gives me no insight as to how the two came to choose each other. They may have met online, and the woman may have set a height requirement. What I see 95% of the time is that the guy is taller. And for all of you jumping on women for having a height requirement, I, as a guy, have one too. I'm 6'2" and I wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman who is 6'1" or more. 6ft? Maybe. Ideally she can't be more than 5'11". "But her height has nothing to do with her personality!" Yeah, I'm aware. We could still be friends though! That wasn't my point. The guys under 5'10" (they're everywhere) with girlfriends, I understand you don't know what brought the 2 of them together, but if you take a look, you see that they usually match up aesthetically and the guy is under 5'10" so it's pretty obvious that she didn't have a 5'10" height requirement. Which is probably why she's dating someone and the other girls are searching online. Link to post Share on other sites
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