RedRobin Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 A guy older than my dad? Yea, I'd be flirting up a storm (within limits, of course) to get him to give us some tips on farm life, and lend a hand on some heavy chores. I'd be testing him to see if he's an old letch who can't be trusted while I'm home alone in the summer while my H is working. If my H got jealous, I'd wonder WTF he was thinking... Long story short... most women aren't interested in effing men old enough to be their fathers... but they like to make those men think they would if it gets them goodies they can't get otherwise How's about that? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 So why is Mark not coming up with an update? I guess he would have decided by now if anything was amiss or not after having spied on his wife while she was alone at home and he was supposed to be at work. The absence of an update is telling in itself. Hope all is well on his domestic front. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 So why is Mark not coming up with an update? I guess he would have decided by now if anything was amiss or not after having spied on his wife while she was alone at home and he was supposed to be at work. The absence of an update is telling in itself. Hope all is well on his domestic front. Meh, or another thread designed to tout the seemingly impossible ability for women to resist the charms of much older men... (cue cheesy Viagra commercial) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mark715 Posted July 24, 2015 Author Share Posted July 24, 2015 Mark , I don't know if your wife is sleeping with old guy or not , but let me just advise you few things : -be rational , don't take advises that are fast and furious ... -may be it is just an innocent act ; be cautious but not irrational . -watch things without any act , don't even mention to her that you are disturbed from his existance , if she is cheating on you this will make her cautious , and if not this will break her heart . -I am not defending her , but when you say your sexlife is fine ; just analyze if it is taking long enough to have her aroused , like are you taking your time exiting her before PIV ... the main reason a wife would think about cheating with an older guy is to expect a long playfull intercourse, some women orgasm from it more than PIV. Tak it easy now man , it could be nothing , and if nothing is happening hopefull , it could be a good thing : see how to enhnce your relationship with your wife .... read my signature : Thanks for the advice it was really good Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mark715 Posted July 24, 2015 Author Share Posted July 24, 2015 I have been on vacation that's why I haven't been posting. I came home that afternoon and he was there, I don't know if I was to early or what but I don't think anything was going on. I said I was sick and needed to lay down. I checked the bed and everything looked ok. When we came back from vacation the flirting started all over again, I don't know maybe it just me Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyBug Posted July 24, 2015 Share Posted July 24, 2015 Methinks he wants to plant some seeds, and not on his farm. Might not have happened yet, and maybe wifey is resisting, but if he can't keep his eyes off her and he was at your house when you got home a little early.... Sounded innocent at first, and it still may be innocent, but I'd be watching this guy like a hawk. Link to post Share on other sites
Poutrew Posted July 25, 2015 Share Posted July 25, 2015 It sounds like you really need to get a couple voice activated digital recorders. Put one in the living room, and one in the bedroom. You absolutely need to find out what they are talking about when you are not there. Especially since this guy seems to be using your house as a pit stop every day. (Has your wife told you how often he is coming by? If not, why?) Another thing is to use your nose. In the morning, put your face right into the bed sheets and take a whiff. Do the same thing when you get home. Is there a difference? Believe me you will be able to tell the difference due to someone else's body odor. Do the same thing to the guest beds if you have any - dead giveaway is if she is changing sheets on the guest beds for no reason. If wifey *is* changing the sheets every day, or using fragrance and hasn't done this before, then you have a problem. If after all this there is no smoking gun, you might want to sit your wife down and tell her how uneasy it makes you feel knowing she is developing a friendship with this man, mainly because it isn't including you. If she tries to turn it around, or make you feel guilty, then ask her how would she feel if she found out you were taking extended lunch breaks every day with a sexy, young female coworker. And how you have come to really enjoy these lunches, as well as the good feeling you are getting because another woman is taking an interest in you, and don't want to stop...? You'll get your answer in her reaction... Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted July 25, 2015 Share Posted July 25, 2015 LOL. I'm over 50 and the thought of some farmer in his mid-to-late 60's makes my stomach turn. I couldn't IMAGINE being 35ish and finding that even remotely attractive. At all. Does your wife have daddy issues, or was there an Uncle Bad Touch in her past? Ugh. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 This is ridiculous. She's friendly to the old man next door, and people are talking recorders, PI's and mental issues. Paranoid and Jaded much? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 Might not have to do with age, but being a rugged farmer. Sounds very manly. Exactly! I look at some of the farmers around here and they are quite sexy. Especially the ones in the late 30's and up. OMG, during hunting season they all look so hot it's like someone released a load of testosterene. Link to post Share on other sites
Poutrew Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 Exactly! I look at some of the farmers around here and they are quite sexy. Especially the ones in the late 30's and up. OMG, during hunting season they all look so hot it's like someone released a load of testosterene. You betcha - after a hard day artificially inseminating horses (look up on youtube as to how they get the semen and what they do with it), birthing cows, killing chickens, and planting the south 40 with Triticale, these guys have every muscle oozing testosterone. Ask any farmers wife how good her rugged man smells at the end of the day and any normal man would worry... One rancher I knew had 3 tons of excess beef he had to get rid of, so he threw a week long party where the b-b-q never stopped. There was a never ending supply of 3 inch center cut steak free for the taking. His neighbors weren't impressed cuz they had the same problem (cattle prices collapsed making it not even worth it to sell the meat at a loss), but for us city slickers who came home with a hundred pounds of free prime frozen in the trunk, and our guts bursting, it made an impression. I can *very easily* see some young, 30ish female being impressed by a man who can not only raise and slaughter the dinner, but serve it as well.... That same rancher gave me some very good advice: "No real woman can resist a Stetson." He was right. That was the best $250 I have ever spent in my life... So just imaging a farmer who is getting so much poon that he can be magnanimous and share his bounty with his pals... If the OP isn't worried he should be. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 (edited) Exactly! I look at some of the farmers around here and they are quite sexy. Especially the ones in the late 30's and up. OMG, during hunting season they all look so hot it's like someone released a load of testosterene. My uncles are farmers and hunters. There is still no effing way I'd want to screw a guy old enough to be my dad. A girl has to be pretty hard up, or pretty screwed up if she thinks 'dad' or 'grandpa' is sexy. Blech. Otoh, perhaps there are some princesses out there who are soft and easily impressed, like the poster above mentioned. The guy is 25+ years older than his wife. Get a grip people. And put down the tabloids or whatever you are reading that makes you believe this kind of thing. Edited July 26, 2015 by RedRobin Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mark715 Posted July 26, 2015 Author Share Posted July 26, 2015 That's how this guy is very rugged and he does raze beef cows Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 That's how this guy is very rugged and he does raze beef cows So what? If your wife is attracted to guys nearly double her own age, then maybe you are dodging a bullet. Let her hang herself by her own rope, if that's the case. If someone wants to cheat, it's their problem, and nothing to do with you. No sense getting wrapped around the axle about it or getting all paranoid. How old are you, BTW? If you are also older, then yea, she's established a track record if this kind of thing... Even worse if she cheated to get with you. If that's the case, then, well, karma is a bitch. Link to post Share on other sites
Noideanow Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 You betcha - after a hard day artificially inseminating horses (look up on youtube as to how they get the semen and what they do with it), birthing cows, killing chickens, and planting the south 40 with Triticale, these guys have every muscle oozing testosterone. Ask any farmers wife how good her rugged man smells at the end of the day and any normal man would worry... One rancher I knew had 3 tons of excess beef he had to get rid of, so he threw a week long party where the b-b-q never stopped. There was a never ending supply of 3 inch center cut steak free for the taking. His neighbors weren't impressed cuz they had the same problem (cattle prices collapsed making it not even worth it to sell the meat at a loss), but for us city slickers who came home with a hundred pounds of free prime frozen in the trunk, and our guts bursting, it made an impression. I can *very easily* see some young, 30ish female being impressed by a man who can not only raise and slaughter the dinner, but serve it as well.... That same rancher gave me some very good advice: "No real woman can resist a Stetson." He was right. That was the best $250 I have ever spent in my life... So just imaging a farmer who is getting so much poon that he can be magnanimous and share his bounty with his pals... If the OP isn't worried he should be. Very very funny post:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 My uncles are farmers and hunters. There is still no effing way I'd want to screw a guy old enough to be my dad. A girl has to be pretty hard up, or pretty screwed up if she thinks 'dad' or 'grandpa' is sexy. Blech. Otoh, perhaps there are some princesses out there who are soft and easily impressed, like the poster above mentioned. The guy is 25+ years older than his wife. Get a grip people. And put down the tabloids or whatever you are reading that makes you believe this kind of thing. My father was a farmer so I'm pretty familar with them. I was speaking of farmers in general (and actually I guess I was a bit off topic) because someone said they weren't sexy. I doubt if I would be interested in one 30 some years older than me but nor any other man that old regardless of his profession. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mark715 Posted July 27, 2015 Author Share Posted July 27, 2015 My father was a farmer so I'm pretty familar with them. I was speaking of farmers in general (and actually I guess I was a bit off topic) because someone said they weren't sexy. I doubt if I would be interested in one 30 some years older than me but nor any other man that old regardless of his profession. Well my wife finds them sexy even at a older age Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Well my wife finds them sexy even at a older age Please PLEASE don't let the "WW under every doily" routine convince you your wife is cheating just because she's nice to an old man. Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 The question is "Do you want to do anything about it or just generate a discussion about it here"? Quite frankly you are not any closer to finding out if anything is wrong so you either accept what is and move on or raise the bar and do something proactive about it. Just one person's opinion! Best wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 Hey what happened? Did you resolve your issue or did what you discovered about your wife and the farmer guy prove to be too painful for you? Usually no news is good news but in your case the chips seemed to be stacked against you. I hope for your sake things have worked out well. Warm wishes! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mark715 Posted November 26, 2015 Author Share Posted November 26, 2015 Everything is going the same here! My hours got changed and I feel he is ****ing her still Link to post Share on other sites
ZHguy Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 (edited) *I'm writing this putting aside the rumors that your thread is untrue IMHO I did think people were getting too paranoid, as well as you. But, when I read the description those women gave earlier on about farmer men (especially daisy's gloating response to it), I'll be honest with you, my engines were running. Another thing that got me suspicious was what you said about farmer man staring at your lady. Do keep in mind though, that it is normal for partners to blush when they see another hot person. And if you think you aren't acting like Matt LeBlanc in lovesick (who was always suspicious because of his condition), then I say don the recorders! Settle it once and for all. Although this investigation think might be a more long term case. And, if you were in the city, I would've said go for a private detector, but this is the country were people's loins are communicating without social media and e-mails, (but you might still want to consider that, (and you might want to consider that their emails are lusty)). Good luck to you man, and keep us posted. And hey, if all goes down the drain, then go and f*** a lady younger and prettier than her, and e-mail it to your lady with the caption 'Enjoy white haired old balls' for the next twenty years, until he's dead - (Adam Sandler not verbatim, from Big Daddy) Edited January 6, 2016 by ZHguy Link to post Share on other sites
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