Popsicle Posted July 10, 2015 Share Posted July 10, 2015 The male version of this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/536823-easier-move-being-mow-sow#post6422581 I think the conventional wisdom is that BOTH just move right on like nothing. Easy peasy. I don't agree with that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AnotherSadSong Posted July 10, 2015 Share Posted July 10, 2015 The male version of this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/536823-easier-move-being-mow-sow#post6422581 I think the conventional wisdom is that BOTH just move right on like nothing. Easy peasy. I don't agree with that. Probably different determined by the relationship. I know mine has moved on easily, no regret for saying what he said. He is happy I am no longer a thorn in his side and who cares of my aftermath. I say the deeper the pain, the stronger the outcome. What does not kill you only makes you stronger in the long run. I wish I could fast forward there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AnotherSadSong Posted July 10, 2015 Share Posted July 10, 2015 My point is scrambled up in my emotions. If they ever cared for that person yes they will have a harder time. If there was absolute no care as in my case of course moving would be incredibly easy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Popsicle Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 Well, I guess this is a mystery.... Link to post Share on other sites
GoldieLox Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 I think the conventional wisdom is that BOTH just move right on like nothing. Easy peasy. I don't agree with that. I think it's conventional wisdom that men do that because of how they perceive themselves. They, by nature, do not show their emotions. According to every male I have ever spoken to, and I have quite a few male friends (that I don't have affairs with, just sayin'...) to show their emotions would be the equivalent of admitting they aren't a man anymore. Over time, they become comfortable doing this to their wife or long term girlfriend, but some never become comfortable with it. A class-A trait of conflict avoiders. The males a] shove the emotions away and don't deal with them at all, or b] deal with them in their own way. The latter doesn't include being a hot mess like women are. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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