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LOL! Well...you know your vagina better than me and if you say you're a replenishing virgin who am I to argue.

 

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No, seriously... please tell me what the difference is between having sex 100 times with different guys and having sex 100 times with the same guy. The use of the vagina is the same.

 

Are you actually saying that sex degrades a vagina? Because, as you may know, a vagina IS a muscle. And you know what happens to muscles that are used, right???

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And I have a giant penis. It's awesome!

 

Never seen a woman admit their vagina might be sub-par.

 

Well, sure. But my point was that it's not any different from when I first started having sex. As no vagina should be, really. Sex does not "loosen it up", as some people seem to believe. In fact... it might tighten it, what with it being a muscle and all.

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No, seriously... please tell me what the difference is between having sex 100 times with different guys and having sex 100 times with the same guy. The use of the vagina is the same.

 

Are you actually saying that sex degrades a vagina? Because, as you may know, a vagina IS a muscle. And you know what happens to muscles that are used, right???

 

I'm feel bad that I offended you. Honestly, that wasn't my intention.

 

If a man loves you he will treat your body with kindness and respect because he cares about the skin and soul that he's touching. If a man is knowingly having a one night stand he'll behave a bit differently. Maybe some men would be kind and loving but my guess is some might say "hmmm I've never tried this before let me see if she'll let me do it to her..." or just be rougher with your body because they don't have anything invented in it or you.

 

You are free to live your life any way you want. If you're happy with your decisions that's all that counts. My opinions aren't important.

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No, seriously... please tell me what the difference is between having sex 100 times with different guys and having sex 100 times with the same guy. The use of the vagina is the same.

 

Are you actually saying that sex degrades a vagina? Because, as you may know, a vagina IS a muscle. And you know what happens to muscles that are used, right???

 

I don't know if this is true but my boyfriend tells me that he can tell if a woman has been around based on her tightness. This sparked a debate in our group of friends and most of the males I know agreed with him. But men are far more qualified to answer that.

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A guy can stick his d*ck into 100 vagina's and the d*ck will look the same. The vagina that has 100 d*ck's....that thang aint looking so good.

 

So if a woman has sex with her husband 500 times and has babies it isn't looking so good either? Hmmmm

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LOL!

 

A giant penis can do a lot of damage. You may want to hang a warning sign on that bad boy.:bunny:

 

Does this mean women shouldn't marry a guy with a big penis because of the damage it will cause?

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Does this mean women shouldn't marry a guy with a big penis because of the damage it will cause?

 

LOL!

 

...well, now you've just come up with a wonderful selling point for men with small di*ks.

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I'm feel bad that I offended you. Honestly, that wasn't my intention.

 

If a man loves you he will treat your body with kindness and respect because he cares about the skin and soul that he's touching. If a man is knowingly having a one night stand he'll behave a bit differently. Maybe some men would be kind and loving but my guess is some might say "hmmm I've never tried this before let me see if she'll let me do it to her..." or just be rougher with your body because they don't have anything invented in it or you.

 

You are free to live your life any way you want. If you're happy with your decisions that's all that counts. My opinions aren't important.

 

You didn't offend me. You are WRONG and that's what I'm trying to point out. It's not opinion, it's science. Your assessment that vaginas won't look/feel the same after much sex is utter bollocks!

 

And no. I've had rougher sex with guys I was in a relationship with because there was a level of trust there. With guys I'm only having casual sex with that doesn't really happen, so it tends to be a lot more vanilla and less adventurous.

 

but again... rough sex doesn't alter the physiology of the vagina anymore than vanilla sex does.

 

I don't know if this is true but my boyfriend tells me that he can tell if a woman has been around based on her tightness. This sparked a debate in our group of friends and most of the males I know agreed with him. But men are far more qualified to answer that.

 

But then that would be true of someone who hasn't "been around" and only had ONE relationship which involved lots of sex. Do they say that about those people too?

 

I have been around the block a few times. And I'm so tight sometimes it's actually almost impossible to get it in. Lots of lube is needed and sometimes, depending on how big the guy is and is we have lube or not, I even bleed as if I'm a virgin, which is most embarrassing.

 

Truth is, the only thing that might stretch the vagina is AGE! Like OLD age. SO yeah, maybe someone in their 60s will have a looser vagina then when she was a teenager. But other than that... no, no really.

 

 

Here's a good article about it:

 

The rare truth about "thight" and "loose" women

 

Read it and educate yourselves.

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I have been around the block a few times. And I'm so tight sometimes it's actually almost impossible to get it in. Lots of lube is needed and sometimes, depending on how big the guy is and is we have lube or not, I even bleed as if I'm a virgin, which is most embarrassing.

 

 

I really didn't need all this info about your vagina but since you've decided to share AND enclosed an article what I learned is that the men aren't getting you aroused enough, therefore, you aren't wet and juicy and ready for sex. So next time maybe bring along a vibrator so you can have a better experience.

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This has been true in my experience. I'll also add that most women seem to prefer a FWB situation with a better looking guy who isn't really interested in them over a guy that might not look as good, but actually digs them. Hence, the hook up culture.

 

That's just because women don't like to have sex with someone they're simply not attracted to. I'm sure they'd be glad to be friends with them. I think I agree with you on some level, and that is that I feel putting the FWB label on it is actually glorifying what it really is and causes a lot of confusion. It's just sex. It's not usually going to go anywhere, and if it did miraculously turn into something, then you've got two people who know each other will just have sex with other people, so one or the other is likely to have trust issues. It's a dead end. But if you just want sex, just call it sex and don't expect anything else but a good natured roll in the hay.

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You didn't offend me. You are WRONG and that's what I'm trying to point out. It's not opinion, it's science. Your assessment that vaginas won't look/feel the same after much sex is utter bollocks!

 

And no. I've had rougher sex with guys I was in a relationship with because there was a level of trust there. With guys I'm only having casual sex with that doesn't really happen, so it tends to be a lot more vanilla and less adventurous.

 

but again... rough sex doesn't alter the physiology of the vagina anymore than vanilla sex does.

 

 

 

But then that would be true of someone who hasn't "been around" and only had ONE relationship which involved lots of sex. Do they say that about those people too?

 

I have been around the block a few times. And I'm so tight sometimes it's actually almost impossible to get it in. Lots of lube is needed and sometimes, depending on how big the guy is and is we have lube or not, I even bleed as if I'm a virgin, which is most embarrassing.

 

Truth is, the only thing that might stretch the vagina is AGE! Like OLD age. SO yeah, maybe someone in their 60s will have a looser vagina then when she was a teenager. But other than that... no, no really.

 

 

Here's a good article about it:

 

The rare truth about "thight" and "loose" women

 

Read it and educate yourselves.

 

As I said men are far more qualified to speak on this no matter how many articles i read.

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As I said men are far more qualified to speak on this no matter how many articles i read.

 

No they're not. Specially not if they spew bull**** like they can tell whether a woman has been around or not. That is just what that is. BULLSH*T!!!

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As I said men are far more qualified to speak on this no matter how many articles i read.

 

No, not really. It may "feel" tight or loose but I think It comes down to how relaxed the muscles are

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I'll touch on the subject.

 

It's genetics, some women have vaginas that usually look closed, those are usually the tight ones. Other women have the kind where the lips are open, those are usually wetter. So it's not necessarily one better than the other.

 

Yes vaginas loosen up after after a lot of sex, but they tighten back up within a day or 2.

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I'll touch on the subject.

 

It's genetics, some women have vaginas that usually look closed, those are usually the tight ones. Other women have the kind where the lips are open, those are usually wetter. So it's not necessarily one better than the other.

 

Yes vaginas loosen up after after a lot of sex, but they tighten back up within a day or 2.

 

More like an hour or 2, but yes, sex does stretch the muscles and yes they do snap back to their original size.

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Nope.

A date nowadays is, "Come back to my place/go to your place to watch a movie (aka have sex)."

 

Don't be ridiculous. I find your post extremely ignorant and misinformed...not to mention antiquated.

 

 

No one watches movies anymore, it's referred to as Netflix :p.

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No they're not. Specially not if they spew bull**** like they can tell whether a woman has been around or not. That is just what that is. BULLSH*T!!![/quote

I was just mentioning what they said. It has never made me change my views on if I was going to have sex or not. But I will not pretend to know what being inside different vaginas feels like.

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No they're not. Specially not if they spew bull**** like they can tell whether a woman has been around or not. That is just what that is. BULLSH*T!!![/quote

I was just mentioning what they said. It has never made me change my views on if I was going to have sex or not. But I will not pretend to know what being inside different vaginas feels like.

 

Now, I haven't looked into the science of vaginas or tightness. But, what you are asserting is a 'begging the question' fallacy. As in, your assertion begs the question of whether or not loose vaginas were caused by promiscuity or over-use. Not to mention I'm not sure we can assert your sample data is statistically significant enough to draw actual conclusions. I'm going to need more numbers!

 

Oh, I'm a man.

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Don't be ridiculous. I find your post extremely ignorant and misinformed...not to mention antiquated.

 

 

No one watches movies anymore, it's referred to as Netflix :p.

 

And what does Netflix show?

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And what does Netflix show?

 

Yes. It was a joke. Probably a lame one. But at least I know my boy loveweary got it! :)

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Think about this. If you are an average looking girl, a good looking guy shows interest in you, and you end up having sex with him, your standards may change. You might start to get used to better looking guys, even though many of those guys are just using you for FWB easy sex situations, and then less attractive guys just don't do it for you any longer. It's is irrelevant to you that none of those really good looking guys was genuinely interested in you, they still raised your standards. I see this stuff all the time. I even lived it to an extent back when I used to date this absolutely gorgeous woman in my mid 20's.

 

Back to how this all pertains to the question at hand, usually when a guy keeps a girl as a FWB, it's because for whatever reason, he doesn't think she is relationship material for him. A lot of these guys have no qualms about disappearing on a girl like that, many times so they can focus their efforts on a woman they prefer.

 

Makes sense.

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Think about this. If you are an average looking girl, a good looking guy shows interest in you, and you end up having sex with him, your standards may change. You might start to get used to better looking guys, even though many of those guys are just using you for FWB easy sex situations, and then less attractive guys just don't do it for you any longer. It's is irrelevant to you that none of those really good looking guys was genuinely interested in you, they still raised your standards. I see this stuff all the time. I even lived it to an extent back when I used to date this absolutely gorgeous woman in my mid 20's.

 

Back to how this all pertains to the question at hand, usually when a guy keeps a girl as a FWB, it's because for whatever reason, he doesn't think she is relationship material for him. A lot of these guys have no qualms about disappearing on a girl like that, many times so they can focus their efforts on a woman they prefer.

 

I just honestly think both sexes are readily "used to" good looking people if they happen to come along. I don't think it's anything you get spoiled to. I think we're probably born that way but that media may form our opinions on it quite a bit. But what balances it out is that not everyone thinks the exact same things are attractive.

 

Ideally, I like pretty faces and prefer very light skin and blue eyes and dark hair (but there were many exceptions), but some of the guys I've thought were attractive who fit this mold were not found overly attractive by all of my friends. I'm a face person. My old roommate was a finger and, well, dick person. She dated some guys I didn't find in the least attractive, and she could have dated most anyone because she was naturally blond and big boobed and outgoing. I've never even met a woman who was mainly about an athletic body, but I know they're out there. So when I see a pretty girl with a big muscled guy with a bad face, she's happy, but I'm thinking "How can she stand it?" She's thinking the same thing about the type I like.

 

For some people, looks go further than for others. For me, I have been lucky to have at least had some interactions with some guys I considered ideal. One truly wasn't good in bed, but I found him so attractive that it barely mattered because my brain was doing all his work for him. Being attracted to a man can be very important to women if they're going to be into sex, but it certainly isn't the same for all women, or they find someone average the ideal maybe because their role model was that type or something.

 

It doesn't all work out neatly, as we all know, but at least the diversity helps.

 

I totally agree with you about the FWB thing. Because it's became such a common thing, we're seeing both sexes get confused by it, when I honestly thought it would be mostly women. I guess that's better than it being only the women being hopeful, though.

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Well, not even sure this is "topical" anymore considering the slant this thread took on replenishing vaginas and such; however, I was speaking with another friend today and the topic of dating sites came up. Her newly divorcing friend took a "lady" out this past weekend that he met on a certain M.com site. He told her that this woman was all over him and sex seemed to be the only thing she really cared about. His reaction...he was mortified.

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Even if you do hear from him, what will that be, one night, and then he may well disappear again for 5 months. Wouldn't even be worthy of the "FWB" label

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Well, not even sure this is "topical" anymore considering the slant this thread took on replenishing vaginas and such; however, I was speaking with another friend today and the topic of dating sites came up. Her newly divorcing friend took a "lady" out this past weekend that he met on a certain M.com site. He told her that this woman was all over him and sex seemed to be the only thing she really cared about. His reaction...he was mortified.

 

...hmmm

 

For the record, I coined the term "replenishing vagina." I'll let you use it this time but next time you'll need to speak to me first regarding copyright issues.

 

:)

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