ITw Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Same cousin I posted about before. She's even worse now. I don't even talk to her but she's still trying to make my life a living hell. She's pissed that she can't steal from me and other family anymore. She blames me for ruining her get-rich quick scheme. Now she's been trying to cause trouble at my and my husband's jobs. She's crossed the line. Now I'm pissed. She's trying to interfere with our ability to feed our kids and ourselves. Those are her nieces and nephew but she doesn't care who she hurts. She's gone too far. She's been causing trouble with our friends too. I knew she'd be mad when I cut her off but I didn't think she'd go this far. If she keeps pushing me, I'll have no choice but to go to the cops and report her stealing from me. I didn't want to do this because she's family and the rest of the family begged me not to. They were mad that she stole from them too but didn't want her to get into trouble. I just hate that it's come to this. The sad part is that she went to college and started law school. She dropped out of law school though. In her warped mind, she thought she didn't need to finish and could get rich and live the good life by stealing from us forever. I hate her. Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 get a restraining order. Sorry you are going thru this, ppl taking things without permission should go work for the govt. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Unless she has physically threatened you, I'm not sure you can get a restraining order but you may be able to file charges for harassment. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 True,,most restraining orders that are filed are for physical protection, an order can be requested to protect physical property as well. Which the Op stated some property is being acquired by the cousin without consent. Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 Next time you're around her, calmly inform her that you're done being nice to her for the family's sake and any further activity WILL be dealt with. Legally, police, whatever. Make it clear. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 Is she on drugs? The stealing and anti-social behaviour and dropping out of law school all sound like signs of a drug addiction to me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 (edited) I would say to escalate at this point and report the theft to the Police. If family has issue with it, calmly tell them about her attempts to get your husband fired. She's a woman, her allegations are more likely to be believed because of that. If she accuses your husband of something, you are in for a world of hurt. Isn't your husband and your kids your family now ? Your primary family ? Edited July 14, 2015 by Radu 2 Link to post Share on other sites
nouedis Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Set up a plan to where she'll steal from you again, but it'll be recorded on video for the cops to see. That way you have more back up evidence than just statements from family members (since that's all it is you have to back you up at the moment.) Screw them not wanting her to pay up for her ramifications. When it's crossing the line with your own personal family, that's it. Game is freaking over. She NEEDS to learn her lesson. I say do it. I don't care how mean it sounds, that's what I would do if my sister did that to me while I'm trying to feed my kids and myself (since I'm not with the mother anymore). Logic is everything, don't get me wrong, but this isn't the time or place to be thinking like that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ITw Posted July 15, 2015 Author Share Posted July 15, 2015 Thanks for the advice everyone. I don't talk to her anymore and I've decided that it's a legal matter now. I won't communicate directly with her anymore, only through the police or a lawyer, if it comes to that. There's something really wrong with her. I think she gets pleasure from hurting others and that's why I'll never forgive her for this. Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted July 15, 2015 Share Posted July 15, 2015 (edited) OP, I commend you for your patience- you are much more restrained than I would have been, but if it gets too bad, turn her in in spite of what your family is saying or wants... ask them to pay your bills if they don't want to turn her in. Edited July 15, 2015 by pureinheart Link to post Share on other sites
Author ITw Posted July 16, 2015 Author Share Posted July 16, 2015 Is she on drugs? The stealing and anti-social behaviour and dropping out of law school all sound like signs of a drug addiction to me. Maybe, who knows. She really wants money and will do anything to get it. She'll probably end up in prison if she doesn't make some changes. Her behavior is bizarre, even for a criminal. With all the time she spends doing this stuff she could probably work two jobs. It's too bad she didn't finish law school. She might have actually been a decent lawyer when using her scheming mind for good instead of embarrassing herself with these idiotic games and schemes. She's acting like a sociopath with all her anti-social behavior. Let's hope karma catches up to the b____. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Maybe karma needs a little help ... Link to post Share on other sites
Iron Bubba Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 You can put a restraining order on her to keep her away from you and if she violates that then she gets to go to jail. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ITw Posted September 28, 2015 Author Share Posted September 28, 2015 Update: My cousin is still acting crazy but at least we're trying to move on. We stay away from her but it looks like she's going to lose her house. No one in the fam will help her out bcuz they FINALLY see what she' done to everyone. She's still posting crap on Facebook and not realizing that she will never make a penny at anyone's expense again. She shoulda been trying to save her home instead of doing all this other stuff or stalking and harassing people. I don't feel sorry for her but I feel for her kids. They're caught up in her madness. Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I hate one of my cousins too for trying to steal my identity he fail in doing so. I told him if i see him around any more you’ll wake up in mental ward with total amnesia under someone else’s name. Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Maybe the family could offer to take her kids in when she becomes homeless. They'd likely be better off. Link to post Share on other sites
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