sisa Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 BS and I have meet twice before, first time is rational talking and second time also rational but I had some strange feelings at the second time because her weird laugh sometimes during our talking. she and MM is seperate and nearly no contact now, they will divorce in next month, and the most recently of their contact is few days ago that she told him will destroy me in anyway she can do. MM did warming me that I should take care myself. Today she just called me and I didn't with phone at the moment, I told MM and he feel I should call back and see what happen, then I called back. Her voice is nice and inviting me for a dinner next week. Should I go? MM said I should go and he feel nice. But my feelings is a bit terrified about the purpose why she want meet me at this moment. Link to post Share on other sites
nikki76 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 BS and I have meet twice before, first time is rational talking and second time also rational but I had some strange feelings at the second time because her weird laugh sometimes during our talking. she and MM is seperate and nearly no contact now, they will divorce in next month, and the most recently of their contact is few days ago that she told him will destroy me in anyway she can do. MM did warming me that I should take care myself. Today she just called me and I didn't with phone at the moment, I told MM and he feel I should call back and see what happen, then I called back. Her voice is nice and inviting me for a dinner next week. Should I go? MM said I should go and he feel nice. But my feelings is a bit terrified about the purpose why she want meet me at this moment. What does this man have that would make you risk your life, literally. This lady is saying she will destroy your life, yet you wonder if you should go to her house for dinner. Did you ever see the movie Psycho? The man poisons his own mother! This is what this lady might do to you. I would stay far away from this man and lady if you ever want to live your life. They are destroying your self worth and are now going to either make your life a living he'll or murder you and bury you in a bucket and put you out in the sea. you might think I'm exaggerating, but there are some fd up people in this world that will do crazy things for "love". I'd be very carefull if I were you. This is turning out to be a potentially dangerous situation. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whatatangledweb Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Do not go. There is no reason for you to meet with her.Odds are she will either tell you that he has to buy her a house(which isn't true and that would mean YOU buy it) or it will be her taking it out on you. There is nothing for you to gain from it. I think he wants you to go because he is crazy and thinks it will be all nice and calm. Look, you are an enemy to her. Her husband is leaving her for you. She is no longer going to be nice about it. It really could be dangerous for you to go. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 I wouldn't do it, but I wouldn't have done the other meetings either. What were those even for? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MuddyFootprints Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 This is your life. It will always be a competition. And, ain't nobody winning here. He's playing you both. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 This is your life. It will always be a competition. And, ain't nobody winning here. He's playing you both. Pretty much. MM seems to genuinely enjoy this as he sits on the sideline encouraging it. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 Initially when I read this, I thought she said that he would make you more miserable than she ever could. Which is probably very true! Second reading I see that she says that SHE will make you miserable. You've met with her twice, this is his wife and his divorce! It's his issue to deal with! If much later down the road, you are caring for their children, then I'd agree that you should meet with her RE: continuity of care. Other than that.... Its HIS issue! Leave them to end their marriage on their own terms... THEN you can assume her place' 2 Link to post Share on other sites
casey.lives Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 don't be controlled be fear. call the police and report her threats...she needs to get a reality check. personally, this is a good time to see what hE is made of.. is he instigating and enjoying the attention or is he upset and protective and turned off b deranged female antics. it is a great opportunity to see him for what he is Link to post Share on other sites
gettingstronger Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 Gently- when are you going to get off this ride- if you re-read your posts-nothing has changed- they (LS) could merge them all because its all the same thing- you seem sweet, but truly, at this point it seems you like the drama as much as they do- just move on-they are not going to change and you could surely get your adrenaline fix some place else- 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author sisa Posted July 13, 2015 Author Share Posted July 13, 2015 I don't like drama, I prefer clear life. I told MM my thinking that I feel meeting her is unnecessary and I feel this timing is not proper. MM said I don't need to meet her if I feel uncomfortable. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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