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35 yo virgin.......... ????????


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I don't hit on "big" girls, although some of them if they are really pretty I would like

 

Escorts r very expensive, and I don't trust 99% of the ads for escorts, it would not surprise me if it was just a setup, with 3-4 of her guy friends, hiding to rob guys

 

I hit on lots of younger girls at clubs, they either don't like me or think I'm too old, and plus I don't have any "skills" so I get nothing but soft rejections( they walk away).

 

Any ideas???????????? I don't want to have to kill myself just yet, but thats where this lonely life is headed

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IMO, just approach women your own age and it goes where it goes. My virginity ended at your age when a male friend's wife introduced me to her hairdresser, a lady my own age and mother of two. That turned into about a six month relationship but, more importantly, ended the virginity years and helped gain more relationship skills.

 

Think less; feel more. Let it flow.

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Clarence_Boddicker

I believe I suggested it to you before. Go to Nevada & hire a licensed orgasm provider. 100% legal & safe. Once you get over the virginity hump, you might have an easier time.

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IMO, just approach women your own age and it goes where it goes. My virginity ended at your age when a male friend's wife introduced me to her hairdresser, a lady my own age and mother of two. That turned into about a six month relationship but, more importantly, ended the virginity years and helped gain more relationship skills.

 

Think less; feel more. Let it flow.

Really? I thought you lost yours in your teens or 20's like most guys do

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35, give or take. Strong Catholic schooling and 'waiting for marriage' in the 'free love' generation. Epic fail. :D

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is it psychological at this point? after a certain reasonable amount of time, most people have had enough social interactions to have lost their virginity at some point. i was 33 the first time - i dated since the age of 16 steadily but just never wanted to go all the way because of deep-rooted issues with love and abandonment. it is very easy to say "go get a hooker/escort" etc. but i bet that wouldn't solve some other, fundamental problem you have. there is probably more going on here, with some type of social awkwardness or phobia and it'll only get much worse as time marches on. i'd probably talk with someone licensed to help - even if it's only once, and that might inspire new action or a new plan of some sort.

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