spggd Posted May 3, 2005 Share Posted May 3, 2005 Here's the deal. I like one of my friends, and I know that he likes me. However, I work with the mother of this guy, and my father works with his father. Also, I am going to be spending half the summer in a foreign country, and only have 8 weeks at home before I go back to college (which would be about 3 hours away from where he is). I don't think either of us really wnat a long distance relationship. It just seems like everything came at the wrong time. I think we should just stay friends for the time being, considering a relationship would be a hassle at this point, but I know there will probably be tension between us, because we will both want more. I guess all I have to ask is how do I deal with this tension, and keep it from getting the best of me, or is it okay for it to get the best of me, or what? Sorry about posting this in the business relationship thing. I can't figure out how to delete it. Link to post Share on other sites
deemanct Posted May 4, 2005 Share Posted May 4, 2005 I'd at least discuss with him your attraction and see what happens. It's nice to have someone to come home to during breaks and holidays. But I'd also keep it as non-commital as is comfortably possible, given the distance between you at school. Kick it around with him...you can always re-define the boundaries at a later date if you need to. What do you think? Would that work? Link to post Share on other sites
Author spggd Posted May 4, 2005 Author Share Posted May 4, 2005 Sounds like a good suggestion. Thanks for the help. *crosses fingers* Link to post Share on other sites
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