juststarry6443 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I love my friend we've been friends for nearly 7 years. We've had a "break" in our friendship in one point in time where we were just 2 different people. She was getting into drugs and just being social and popular. I'm for the most part a quiet person. I enjoy hanging out with her. I get to not think about things for awhile like school or family drama. It's summer now and I have a lot more free time & now she seems to become a bit too much every week. Her behavior/personality is what our generation would call the #YOLO lifestyle. She loves to make plans to spend money on beer to "chill" and drink or go to the club. Now that she's 21 her excitement for going to the club and drinking is increasing (Don't be so surprised by the underage drinking, alright). She just asked me if I wanted to go to Vegas next weekend. I told her if I get the money for it, I will. She tells me I want to go, just to go! I ask, "Well who's going to pay for gas?" She tells me her aunt & that "technically" we only have to pay for food, drinks, and the club if there's a charge. I'm thinking does she hear herself? Her grasp of money is so irresponsible. My friend on the other hand will overdraft her card just to go out for lunch. She invited me to lunch for sushi one day. We went in and sat down, but to my surprise she had no money she was going to hope that her card will work because she had an instance where it did work & she knew she had no money in it. Thank goodness she asked the waiter to "test out" the card first. Idk wht I'd do if we had ordered food. She's even stolen money from her roommate just so she can "treat" me out. She doesn't have a job right now yet she has such a strong mindset to go out everyday on some kind of adventure. She doesn't come up with free ideas either. To my little cousins, she's fun, loud, unique & adventurous & I come off as the boring, mellow person. Nonetheless, I love her & I can talk to her about 95% of the things going on in my head. I'm just venting, but if you have some relative annoying friends I'd love to hear stories about them. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 At first I was going to say that your friend is just one of those impulsive immature young people that is going to have to learn about life the hard way but then I got to the part about her stealing money from her roommate which is completely unacceptable behavior to me. Did you actually let her buy you lunch with her stolen money? I hope not. I would never be friends with a thief. Link to post Share on other sites
nouedis Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Honestly, sometimes you can't change the way people are. They grow up to be the way they are because of what they saw growing up or what they had to encounter growing up. Link to post Share on other sites
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