CalvinM Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 (edited) We both had the night off and she suggested we make burgers and watch a movie. We live together until the end of the month when I'm moving into my own place. We started out on the couch with a bit of distance between us, but when she got back from outside from the bbq, she got closer. We were talking and as I flipped the burgers, etc, she was laughing and talking about how it was nice that I'd given her space and that she missed me. We cuddled and she actually let me rub and touch her, my hand up her shirt, etc. it was really nice. When we got back inside she said "remember that red dress you like from my profile? You never got to see me in it. You should take me for a beer when you move out." It's been over a week and a half since we've had sex and over a month since we broke up. Is giving her more space the answer? Edited July 14, 2015 by CalvinM Link to post Share on other sites
casey.lives Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 letting him really miss you is the answer. in 3 weeks he'll be up the wall. Link to post Share on other sites
grokcahsevol Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 letting him really miss you is the answer. in 3 weeks he'll be up the wall. Do you mean letting her really miss you? OP, did she dump you or you dump her? and how long were you both together for, and why did you guys break up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted July 14, 2015 Author Share Posted July 14, 2015 She dumped me. Almost 5 months. We broke up because we moved in too soon. Link to post Share on other sites
grokcahsevol Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 She dumped me. Almost 5 months. We broke up because we moved in too soon. Me personally, from all the reading I have been doing.. I would let her do the chasing. Don't think about sex everytime you are together, build up the tension.. kiss her neck rub her hair caress her then back off and do some talking.. every girl has that "spot" where you just give them the goosebumps. Don't become too needy just my .2 cents How long were you both together for? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted July 14, 2015 Author Share Posted July 14, 2015 She was moaning and pushing against me to get closer as I kissed her neck and let me rub her back and between her legs. Almost 5 months. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Sounds like she's using you for a little more pleasure until you move out. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Sounds like she's using you for a little more pleasure until you move out. This.. You're there still and she can't exactly(comfortably) bring any guys to mess around with until you move out next month. Stop playing house with her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted July 14, 2015 Author Share Posted July 14, 2015 Sounds like she's using you for a little more pleasure until you move out. Except no sex. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Except no sex. Stop allowing it..simple. She's toying with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Except no sex. You can get pleasure without having sex. Sounds like you're giving her emotional pleasure and comfort. Either way, your current approach is no bueno. You're broken up and moving out. It's time to act like it. Link to post Share on other sites
aloneinaz Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 You can get pleasure without having sex. Sounds like you're giving her emotional pleasure and comfort. Either way, your current approach is no bueno. You're broken up and moving out. It's time to act like it. This^^ If she hasn't told you to stay and she's letting you move out, why allow her any benefits? She dumped you and is being a bit of an ass in getting physical w/you at all. She's messing w/your head and you're allowing it. Link to post Share on other sites
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