LWL Posted July 15, 2015 Share Posted July 15, 2015 First time here, alright?? Pretty sure this is in the right spot.. I'm new to the whole love thing as I'm young, and I know I have my whole life ahead, but I just need help now. I knew him, and saw him practically everyday for about 7 months. I know it's not a long time, but it's enough time. No we never went out or anything due to age, how we met, and other things. I'm usually able to get over crushes, and heartthrobs.. but not this one... He was the first guy I fell head over heels for. I know I'll never see him again as I don't know if he'll come back to America, and he probably has a girlfriend. I just miss him so much.. hearing him talk, and seeing him. Why am I so hung up on him??? I've cried over him, I'm usually so in control of everything but not this time apparently. I've accepted the inevitableness about the situation, and tried to move on, and forget, but he just drew me in like no one else has. He just pops into my thoughts every now, and then, and I can't do anything, but feel at a loss, and like crying. He was y' know everything physically, and personality wise I loved him. He was just so sweet, and kind to me.. I can't just go out, and meet some other guy whose wonderful... at least not right now. Any friendly words of wisdom, or advice?? I could really use it. Link to post Share on other sites
Gus Grimly Posted July 15, 2015 Share Posted July 15, 2015 First time here, alright?? Pretty sure this is in the right spot.. Welcome, you're definitely in the right spot. As I'm in a terrific state of Grief myself, not sure anything I have to say will be valid. I am sorry you are going through such agony. We all are. Believe me, what you are feeling is real and affects a lot of us broken hearts. The best thing to do is try to take care of yourself, keep yourself busy, write your feelings in a journal and surround yourself with friends and family. Go out and get some exercise if possible. ALl these suggestions are easier said than done, I would be a hypocrite if I told you I've been doing them. All we can do is try to get through the day, just hang on till we get to tomorrow. Then do that again and again until it doesn't hurt as bad anymore. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
15Love Posted July 15, 2015 Share Posted July 15, 2015 Exactly this! ^^^ Glad you posted! It has def helped me feel less alone going through this. Have you started NC? Since he's not in country I mean refraining from any social media, etc. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LWL Posted July 16, 2015 Author Share Posted July 16, 2015 I didn't really have contact with him other than seeing him in person all the time. Plus I felt weird look at anything of his for some reason, so yeah NC... Link to post Share on other sites
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