Why do I want him to love me forever when I'm not even sure we'd be happy?

[sandylee1]

His wife could be plotting her revenge, so I think you should stay clear of him. She'll do some digging and get details of your SO, then she'll expose you and show him the message you sent her husband.

 

Now if your SO is okay with that because your just companions, then that's good for you.......but his wife doesn't want that.

 

Why not have an open relationship with your SO? That'll bring some excitement for the both of you? Swinging maybe?

 

When you say it's a companionship, is that just your understanding of the relationship or would your SO agree with you?

[Astridskylar]

Ive noticed alot of men seem to get into ea or pa with pregnant wives at home.

Be careful...its a phase..temporary...he's looking for attention and emotional support while his wife is achy, swollen, and needs him...he doesnt get turned on being needed..but rather wanted.

Im sure theres even more psychology behind it but all the attention at home is not on him.

Your just playing a role, filling a void.

Step back...quickly. Gain control.

 

his wife isnt pregnant, thats a reply i did about another thread

[RainDown]

What's a masculine mind?

[Astridskylar]

His wife could be plotting her revenge, so I think you should stay clear of him. She'll do some digging and get details of your SO, then she'll expose you and show him the message you sent her husband.

 

Now if your SO is okay with that because your just companions, then that's good for you.......but his wife doesn't want that.

 

Why not have an open relationship with your SO? That'll bring some excitement for the both of you? Swinging maybe?

 

When you say it's a companionship, is that just your understanding of the relationship or would your SO agree with you?

 

my SO has always said he d never marry. he hates the whole church thing, and thinks marriage is financial ruin when you separate. he has always wanted kids, but no wedlock (as in lock i guess?). he told me from the start, and i went along with it, even though i would have liked to have a beautiful white wedding like the other gals. he says kids are more of a commitment than a wedding will ever be.

that being said, i have no per

ission whatsoever to be "open" to other men. even though we never said it out loud in front of anyone, it is understoof we have the same obligations as in a marriage.

regarding swinging, well if you knew my so, you d laugh your head off :laugh: ( he s not a very sexual man)

[Astridskylar]

What's a masculine mind?

 

well, men or women with masculine traits