Author goingcrazy111 Posted July 20, 2015 Author Share Posted July 20, 2015 Thank you for all your support. Here is a quick update on my situation. It has been a week since I decided to end the engagement and call off the wedding. In the meantime, my ex-fiance was still begging for me to take him back. He told me all the details of his "indiscretion". I told him to wait until September to sell the house, because everything is so fresh and I wanted to wait and see how I feel about the situation and his cheating in a couple of months time. Ironically, he told me that he cannot wait for me and he doesn't want to have any hope left in case I won't take him back ( mind you it has been 1 week). So he decides that it is over for good. He makes it easier for me in some ways but harder as I only realise now that wasted 3.5 years on a man who didn't really love me. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 Clearly. he is 'guilt-tripping' you.... Good move. You didn't waste 3.5 years. You had some good times during that time. It was a good relationship in parts. Look on the bright side: be glad you dodged the bullet prior to anything legally permanent taking place. ....And now you know more about 'tantric sex'.... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 Wow. Couldn't wait after a week? Good riddance! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
understand50 Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 Thank you for all your support. Here is a quick update on my situation. It has been a week since I decided to end the engagement and call off the wedding. In the meantime, my ex-fiance was still begging for me to take him back. He told me all the details of his "indiscretion". I told him to wait until September to sell the house, because everything is so fresh and I wanted to wait and see how I feel about the situation and his cheating in a couple of months time. Ironically, he told me that he cannot wait for me and he doesn't want to have any hope left in case I won't take him back ( mind you it has been 1 week). So he decides that it is over for good. He makes it easier for me in some ways but harder as I only realise now that wasted 3.5 years on a man who didn't really love me. Showed his true colors again. YOU WERE LUCKY, missed a bullet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 End it now and get the house sold. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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