Maximeemixam Posted July 16, 2015 Share Posted July 16, 2015 I have Been 4 and a half years with her and we had a couple of in and out because of me i must admit. A month ago we broke up for good (i thought) then one day she texted me asking how i was and that she wanted to talk about us, i said yes so we went for a walk and she asked me how was i feelings about her Now so i was honest and told her that i still wanted to be with her! And she told me the same thing saying that she wanted to live the rest of her life with me just to be short we ended passing the night together the morning after she told me that she wasnt thinking the same anymore and that she wasnt certain anymore, that she didnt felt the butterfly.... What should i do?? Keep trying of just try to Move on??? Link to post Share on other sites
ravfour4 Posted July 16, 2015 Share Posted July 16, 2015 Something very similar to happened me, it hurt even worse the second time after seeing how much fun we could have together. I think you should tell her that you're willing to give it your all to make it work and if she doesn't want to right now, you understand and will give her space. Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted July 16, 2015 Share Posted July 16, 2015 You broke up for a reason. Now all of a sudden you get back for a night and all of a sudden she says the spark isn't there. No sense taking this any further. There's a reason for break ups and if you get back together, the same warts, scars and bad habits are still there that cause the break up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
foolinlove79 Posted July 16, 2015 Share Posted July 16, 2015 People want what they cant have. They also idealize their ex i think. But once you get back together you quickly remember what you dont like. You can keep going in an on and off rs that will probably permanently end at some point or break free from the hurt and drama. Link to post Share on other sites
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