tinydancer324 Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 It's been 4 months since I left him and all I can think about is how I failed...and now he is contacting lawyers. I'm 38 and terrified I won't be able to be a mother. I quit my job to be with him and now I am starting from zero. And all I can do is take Xanax and sleep. Please help...any words of encouragement or advice or been-there.... Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 It's been 4 months since I left him And yet less than three weeks ago you were dating a guy you were crazy about here. Based on the first threads you started back in April, you have broken up a few times. It sounds like you shouldn't have moved and would have been better staying apart and moving on - being alone and not even trying to date while still married and having a LDR. Link to post Share on other sites
Amas5750 Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Sorry you are in a state of distress. Try to take yourself out of it for moments. What tiny things can you force into your day for just a bit of respite? A favourite TV show? Something on YouTube ? If I could give you a big hug I would Link to post Share on other sites
hromo Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 Please see counseling or support group. You need the support. It will help wonders, trust me from personal experience. l was given pills but didn't take them. It's only short term, there is no easy way but to deal with the pain and get through it Link to post Share on other sites
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