Ex gf is trying to kick me out

[sandylee1]

There is no proof she snooped on his phone at all.

 

 

 

My guess is she put two and two together, it is hardly a huge leap for anyone to make...

 

My mistake then.

[CalvinM]

It's sounding like a lot of hassle, but from a moral POV she should give you the money back. Tell her you can see about staying somewhere if she gives you what you've paid.

 

I don't see you've done wrong but I personally like a stress free life and she sounds unpredictable. That would be my fear , if I were you. She should be reasonable about this and expecting you to leave just like that is being unreasonable.

 

Does she know you're leaving at the month end?

 

I honestly don't know why it's bothering her. She's likely jealous you're not pining over her and she's got a bruised ego.

Yes, she knows.

 

Thanks for weighing in with humility and sensibility.

[candie13]

because you bloody live together, that's why. You live in HER place. Now, if it's over for 2 months, why the hell are you still living there? Plus, you keep mentioning her last Monday and stuff... it's not over over unless you move out.

 

Basically, the body of your previous RS isn't even cold and you're already thinking about shaggin' someone new? Man, that ex of yours must have meant the world to you, aren't you a real catch !?!

 

Move it, bro!!! Get moving, then date and sleep with as many women as you care, out of your ex's live, face and house. Learn to play clean, it'll save you from worrying about getting evicted. Of course, that would mean showing respect, curtesy, maybe even a little bit of conscience and remorse for your flaws and mistakes in that past relationship, because it didn't just die on its own, you were also involve in it. Totally not your case !

 

ya know what they say, if you really want to get to know a person, break up with them ! some catch you are !

[OldRover]

From a legal standing, in most states, if you've paid rent you're entitled to to stay. And to evict you, whom ever took the rent will have to give you notice per law..... and you have a few days to respond, and you decide to fight it, you can stay until your day in court.

 

In most states: if you're paying monthly, to terminate (if you're paying rent) they have to give you a month's notice. They cannot start the eviction process until the month ends and you don't pay rent... so you could legally stay well in to August if you choose, and will cost you virtually nothing. If she collects rent and you paid it, the landlord could start eviction against you (and her) for being a non authorize tenant.

 

I don't see where you've done anything wrong and have a right to a place you've paid for. Has nothing to do with how you feel about each other, or either cheater or whatever.

 

Now, if the police get involved (domestic violence, etc), they can evict you in a minute.

 

Now, being practical... I could argue it would be awkward staying with a GF that really wants you gone.

[candie13]

From a legal standing, in most states, if you've paid rent you're entitled to to stay. And to evict you, whom ever took the rent will have to give you notice per law..... and you have a few days to respond, and you decide to fight it, you can stay until your day in court.

 

In most states: if you're paying monthly, to terminate (if you're paying rent) they have to give you a month's notice. They cannot start the eviction process until the month ends and you don't pay rent... so you could legally stay well in to August if you choose, and will cost you virtually nothing. If she collects rent and you paid it, the landlord could start eviction against you (and her) for being a non authorize tenant.

 

I don't see where you've done anything wrong and have a right to a place you've paid for. Has nothing to do with how you feel about each other, or either cheater or whatever.

 

Now, if the police get involved (domestic violence, etc), they can evict you in a minute.

 

Now, being practical... I could argue it would be awkward staying with a GF that really wants you gone.

 

hum... the guy moved in with her, at her place. They weren't room mates first then lovers. so he moves in, they live together, their RS is on and off and the guy doesn't even try to properly close his current RS and find a new place to live before starting to date around... if they were indeed broken up, why would she go through his stuff? because they are not over over, that's why. their RS is on the rocks and most prob she's giving him a hard time. And instead of dealing with it - fixing it or moving out, he conveniently choses to go meet new women. that for sure will fix everything !

Edited July 20, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[CalvinM]

I've done nothing the last week to motivate that type of treatment, short of being around. And even that has been minimal, since she works days and I work mostly at night.

Edited July 20, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[CalvinM]

hum... the guy moved in with her, at her place. They weren't room mates first then lovers. so he moves in, they live together, their RS is on and off and the guy doesn't even try to properly close his current RS and find a new place to live before starting to date around... if they were indeed broken up, why would she go through his stuff? because they are not over over, that's why. their RS is on the rocks and most prob she's giving him a hard time. And instead of dealing with it - fixing it or moving out, he conveniently choses to go meet new women. that for sure will fix everything !

 

We are over. She hasn't touched me in three weeks.

 

I'm a healthy guy in the prime of my life and I'm not going to wait for her to decide it's worth working for. I deserve to be happy immediately.

Edited July 20, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[William]

Hi folks, William stopping by to let folks know due to the fisticuffs here I moderated a few members and closed this thread. To those members who offered respectful and topical opinions, LoveShack.org thanks you. Since the thread starter's responses would be substantially delayed, I decided in the interest of continuity to close the thread. It appears input was trending to the explosive anyhow. Have a good evening.