Pices Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Hello guys, This is my first time on forum and i am hoping i can get an insight into my question. I am/was in a long distance relationship with a girl i met on a matrimonial site and we were planning on to get married. Initially communication was positive and we conveyed to each other that we both we right for each other. We chatted and Skype more over a year and i had expresses my desire to get married in December. A month back she text me that she cannot continue and thats it I have not communicated back either............ Anything you guys can tell me..... Link to post Share on other sites
Brokenmech Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Just my personal opinion but you can't know if you want to marry someone by just communicating with someone online, even for an extended period of time. You need to at least meet them and spend a lot of time with them, do the things couples do, know that you totally love and are right for each other, before even discussing marriage. I don't know for certain why she said she could not continue, she may have realised it was getting too "real" and that scared her. Possibly she met someone else in real life. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 Hello guys, This is my first time on forum Welcome to the LS LDR forum. I am/was in a long distance relationship with a girl i met on a matrimonial site and we were planning on to get married. Have you ever met her in person? We chatted and Skype more over a year and i had expresses my desire to get married in December. The fact that you don't mention meeting her ever makes your post look a bit awkward. Propositioning is better done in person. I can understand doing it from afar when two people can't be temporarily together, but planning a marriage/wedding is usually a big thing for a girl. 1. How old are you both? 2. Who was moving to where? 3. Are you both working? 4. Who was supposed to lose their job, if any? 5. Do you both know the home/house you're supposed to live in together? 6. Who was supposed to arrange the wedding? 7. Was your marriage proposal something to remember? How did you ask? 8. Most importantly, how did she react to it? A month back she text me that she cannot continue and thats it So you talked to her for a year, then your asked her to marry you, and after a month from your proposal, she texted you saying she was backing out? It's as awkward as it can be for two people writing each other and not taking the time to be with one another in person. Link to post Share on other sites
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