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Talking to a new girl and she has issues


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So I'm talking to a new girl, we hit it off.

 

She has issues, she's very shy, has no friends, very self concious on how she looks . Very low confidence.

 

Doesn't have a cell phone. We mostly talk on skype, snd today she messages me telling me her late crashed, but it shows she's still online on skype, and she will rarely come on but won't come on. Tells me it will be 3 or 4 months till sge has a new laptop saved up.

 

So now im here weither or not to continue to pursue her. I know im not planning on waiting 3 or 4 months. That's just crazy. Should I just distance my self?

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She's either got serious money drama and a non-expiring connection, or bull**** drama.

 

You can take it from there.

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No cell phone? Whaaaa

 

What do you like about this girl?

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She has walls around her, and she's building on them, not looking to demolish them.

Sorry, but you're not her nurse or counsellor. Let those guys deal with this, as eventually they actually might have to.

You?

 

Walk away.

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Do you want to be her BF or her therapist? She needs the latter, not the former.

 

Romantic relationships are not fixer-up projects. Flip houses or become a therapist if you want to rehabilitate something

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She's an odd duck. Steer clear.

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I would like to be her boyfriend, but I can't fix her up.. everything I try to do and she tells at me because she doesn't want to do it, due to her being self concious

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You've got all the replies you need. Nothing more needs saying, really.....

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