OCCDAVE Posted May 6, 2005 Share Posted May 6, 2005 I still have feelings for this one girl who i broke up with over a year ago cause i was immature and acted like a jerk.We had so much in common i really don't know why i acted the way i did.I'm about to contact her what should i say and should i bring up the past and say sorry or try to start fresh Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 6, 2005 Share Posted May 6, 2005 What are your motives/intentions? Is it because you are truly sorry for how you acted and regret it or is it because you were recently broken up with or rejected and now you feel sorry for how you treated her? I ask this because I notice people wanting to go back to an old flame they broke up with a long time ago after they are rejected themselves and want to go back to something safe or a place where their self esteem can be brought up again. ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 6, 2005 Author Share Posted May 6, 2005 Well to be honest i had always felt bad for how i treated her and it's bugged me up untill this point.I was going to hook up with this one girl but i wont lie it didn't work so i wanted to contact my ex and try to fix things.Even before i met this girl who i was talking to i honestly hand in mind to contact my ex i was just to nervous and scared to Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 6, 2005 Share Posted May 6, 2005 Well I will give you credit for feeling bad for how you treated her...shows you have a conscience That's a very good thing!~ So why have you been scared to talk to her again? Are you afraid that she will not want to talk to you again or be angry? I think you should go for it. Even though it has been 1 year,I am 100% positive that she will appreciate your apology if nothing else. I say you should call her up! Just be prepared for a potential let down... Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted May 6, 2005 Share Posted May 6, 2005 I'd imagine that if she were to consider going back to you she'd need to hear some proper explanation as to why things didn't work out before. Saying that you were immature and a jerk doesn't really tell her very much. Do you want this girl back because she sets you on fire and your life feels incomplete without her? Or are you just yearning for her because you want to get back into that comfort zone of being with someone who loves you and can be relied upon? Might not be fair to try to talk your ex into getting back together with you if you only want her because she's "safe" - or, worse still, because you feel guilty about the way you treated her before. There could be another guy out there who will come along and decide she's the most amazing woman he's ever met. Still - it's your call. Link to post Share on other sites
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