Author Scorpiolover Posted July 30, 2015 Author Share Posted July 30, 2015 I think it may be porn or sexting perhaps? However Do you ever go into the garage? Why don't you wait for 5-10 mins, time for him to "set up" perhaps then follow him in there? Do you live in a built up area, is it possible he could be meeting someone in there? or round the back, in the lane, etc.? Yes. so would I. I have caught him red handed with the porn but made light of it. He has had it on his phone hidden. We live in a home that only our family can access. I have walked out a bit after him and hes,quick to turn the page or whatever. Hes on craigslist alot. I wrote an update referring to that. Link to post Share on other sites
Goodbye Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 This sounds more like he's spanking to porn rather than cheating. Either way its not fair to you that you are frustrated while he's spanking in the garage. He may have a porn problem. An occasional spank isn't anything to be concerned with but if he's draining the tank by himself all the time and denying you, that's a problem. You have the right to insist you get yours before he heads out to the barrage. However part of that process will be to address why he'd rather spank to his phone rather than make love to his willing wife. You'll have to be honest with yourself and make him feel safe enough to discuss this openly with you. For starters does he know you want to have sex with him?? You say you've tried to initiate with him but many women are so subtle that even their own husbands don't know that they are trying to initiate. Have you tried just reaching down his pants and saying, "I want some of this?" You'll need to look at other things too? Have you put on a lot of weight and aren't taking care of yourself? (And by a lot of weight I mean 50 or more lbs, not 5_10 lbs) Are you a bitch to him? Are you always criticizing him and second guessing him and chewing him out or belittling him all the time? You may need to address some issues that are very uncomfortable and unsettling for both of you. Wow, misogynistic. IF she gains weight it is ok to reject someone intimately/and or cheat?? I'm pretty sure he is cheating on you. Maybe an emotional affair that results in him being horny and masturbating a lot...but an affair of some sort. Do NOT let anyone tell you it's because you didn't "supply" him well enough. He owes it to you to discuss marital issues before going off to get his action elsewhere. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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