guild11 Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Hello guys, if I turned broke, should I tell my GF(3 month) That I wont be able to actually date her for the next 2 month ? If she loves as she says I think she can be patient for a while without going to places... But hey, if she doesnt want to have a broke boyfriend I can understand that. No money even for fuel, f*k my life. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 You should talk to her about finances. If you don't even have enough money for gas, that is pretty broke. You don't have to give up on her. If she can get to you, you two can still go for walks, play board games, lay in the sun etc. Disappearing on her for several months will add unnecessary strain to your relationship. Meanwhile what are you doing to get a new job? Link to post Share on other sites
Author guild11 Posted July 28, 2015 Author Share Posted July 28, 2015 You should talk to her about finances. If you don't even have enough money for gas, that is pretty broke. You don't have to give up on her. If she can get to you, you two can still go for walks, play board games, lay in the sun etc. Disappearing on her for several months will add unnecessary strain to your relationship. Meanwhile what are you doing to get a new job? I have a job with salary above average, but I wasted way over my income, so wasted money + education loan got me in position that I owe to the bank. I just kept wasting for few month like a stupid now got to suck my finger. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 What you need is a budget. Sit down figure out where / how you spend your money & then where you can cut. Tell your GF you have a cash flow problem right now & can't spend money. Find things in your house you can sell. Go to sites like Task Rabbit & sign up to provide services to other for some quick cash. Become an Uber driver There are things you can do to fix your cash flow problem if you want to. Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence_Boddicker Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 3 months isn't long. This will be a good test. I'd talk to her & see what she says. Don't borrow money from her or let her pay for everything while you're broke. How much have you spent on her per week or month on ave before you went bust? Can you get a personal loan from family to cover close (2/3rds) to that amount? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Just tell her. I'm curious why you think there's an end in sight, but if you're sure, then if she's not just a golddigger, she'll hang in there. I would recommend if you don't even have gas money, you at least mow a lawn or two for that. Or sell blood. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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