joel Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 do women out there like guys who are inexperienced in dating, kissing and inexperienced sexually. i am asking this b/c yes i am one. i hope when i do get a gf she won't see me as some weird or inferior for being such a late bloomer.some gals might find it weird. i really don;t even have a excuse for my lack of women other than shyness, quiteness, lack of socail skills and no that much money-i think dating requires money(go out to eat, movies, ........) i mean don;t women all love money so they can go shopping. its so depressing when i go out and see couples my age holding hands-since i am single for soo long and never had a gf or dated. as u or read some of my previous posts. Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 You know Joel. There comes the time when writing about not having a G/F is nothing more than talk and some action needs to occur if you want people to take you seriously. We all know you're shy and lack self-esteem but these are things only you can work on and we cannot give you a virtual reality women. The action is with-in you if you make the choice and listen. As the Nike ad says " Just Do It". Sorry if this a little harsh. I mean it to be constructive help. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 I am sure some women would like it, especially the ones that had been betrayed in the past. They might think of you as pure and innocent. My ex-husband told me I was his #2 in bed (he was 34 when we started dating). I kinda sensed that before he told me. Yet he wasn't pure and innocent. My current BF has had a lot of women and I adore him. I'm not a saint myself and I don't want anyone to look me down. A (relatively) inexperienced girl would probably be perfect for you if you want a long-term relationship. Try the dating sites. It will give you some insight of the dating scene and women overall. Go out more and approach women. Engage in some activity where you can meet women. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear You know Joel. There comes the time when writing about not having a G/F is nothing more than talk and some action needs to occur if you want people to take you seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
pedens001 Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 I only post on here when I really have something to say and now I do so hear me out here... Joel: Over the past month or so I've been reading your posts, its almost safe to say your writing about the same thing over and over..Your 24 right...by now you need to stop this you feel inferior crap..you think a woman wants to deal with someone who goes around moping all day?? You have to get out and change yourself and things you do. I'm about to turn 21, I have about the same amount of experience you do only I have accomplished alot in changing myself, I started working out more, eating right I look better and I started talking to girls more, I find if you talk to them as if they are normal people(which they are) and look them in the eyes and hold intelligent conversations with them they will talk to you more. I work in customer service and that right there has helped build my confidence with talking to ppl I think of it as talking to someone at work just another person You have to hold your head up high *literally* if you go around with a depressed look on your face the women are gonna think that you have issues.. The point I'm trying to make and Marshbear has really hit it home by using the Nike example...you really have to just do it...You cannot keep going around thinking life is screwing you over, I may not have a girl but I'm fine with being single..it doesn't bother me yes I have my days where I think it would be nice to have someone but I move on and figure that when its ready to happen it will happen in the meantime I have other things to do..and because of that attitude I got decent grades this term, and am now 2 years away from having a B.S. degree.. I'm gonna wrap this up with this Joel, you have got to stop whining and carrying on about it cuz that will never change and you can't go around with a fake smile on your face you have to really be happy otherwise ppl will tell its fake.. So in the end all do all of this Joel get out there and do stuff alone or with friends doesn't matter and start living your life how you want it cuz your only getting one shot at this and you don't want to waste it all carryin on about not having a woman that would really be a waste of time if you asked me.. Phil Link to post Share on other sites
silverspring Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 Hi Joel, You'd be perfect for me. I've dated around but nothing serious. I've never fallen in love yet. I've always been attracted to shy, humble guys rather than loud, obnoxious guys. I don't know what your personality is like, but I think there's a girl for every type of guy out there. I think it's okay to mope from time to time, as long as you try to break out of it and get back on your feet. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted May 7, 2005 Author Share Posted May 7, 2005 sileverspring-i live in vancouver,bc, not srue were u at.anways i just gotta get out there. gotta make freinds too-since i am more of a loner type. lots of aquitances and no freinds-from college Link to post Share on other sites
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