justdoit_3219 Posted August 4, 2015 Share Posted August 4, 2015 Met an amazing girl 1 year ago while she was visiting abroad. She had a boyfriend at the time so I tried my best to remain just friends.. That didn't work out very well. When she had to go back home a few months later (Europe) she broke things off with her boyfriend and we remained in touch. I went and visited her for several weeks and things went well; she started telling people I was her boyfriend and asked if I was okay with it. I said yes. A few months later she came and stayed with me; she seemed to really enjoy it but I could tell she didn't like having nothing to do on the days I was at work. Now we haven't seen each other for about 2 months and I have tickets to visit her in just a few weeks. However it seems like she is slowly losing interest because I don't get harassed to skype anymore and a lot of times her texts are pretty short. Her actions are causing me to feel insecure and are having a pretty negative impact on my life... I got a nice confidence boost by a gorgeous girl who chatted me up at a coffee shop the other day; normally this would make my day but the only thing I can focus on is the girl I may someday fall in love with is giving me these short answer responses.. She is definitely making me work for her attention whereas beforehand it was the other way around. I'm working on moving closer to her towards the end of this year but have doubts about our relationship because of her lack of communication... When I asked her (more than once) if she wants to just stay friends for now due to the distance issue she says no way and wants to wait for me. So my question I guess is... why would someone want to remain in a relationship if they don't seem interested anymore? She has friends (guys and girls) who I know she texts on a regular basis... my first thought is that her friends and maybe another guy is keeping her happy but then why stay in a relationship with me? Why talk about our families meeting etc..? Any input is appreciated; maybe I'm just being clingy... Link to post Share on other sites
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