joel Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 if a gal says shes a virgin how can u tell if shes lieing or telling the truth? i now aboyut the himen but that can be reattached. how else and clues and advice to see if a gal is really a virgin or not Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 you just have to trust her.. I guess you can tell somewhat by how comfortable she is in bed. I doubt anyone would have their hymen re-attached, but who knows... girls can also still be a virgin without a hymen, some loose them as kids (accidents, etc.), some from tampon use, masturbating, etc. Why would it really matter to you? Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Yeah what Bob said! Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by Barby Yeah what Bob said! Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Define virgin? Is a woman a virgin after giving 600 guys a blow job for money but has never had intercourse? Is a woman a virgin if she was born without a hymen and never had intercourse? Is a woman a virgin if she has had intercourse with another woman using a strap on but had her hymen surgically "restored?" Is a woman a virgin if she has anal but not vaginal intercourse? No there is no reliable way to determine if a woman is a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by BigB I doubt anyone would have their hymen re-attached, but who knows... BigB surgical restorations of virginity are common in cultures that value virginity. In the ten years prior to 1996 in Egypt, the hymen repair surgery has reduced 80 percent of the murders committed when a bride was found not to be a virgin on the wedding night, according to the June 1996 issue of the British medical journal, The Lancet. Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by Craig BigB surgical restorations of virginity are common in cultures that value virginity. In the ten years prior to 1996 in Egypt, the hymen repair surgery has reduced 80 percent of the murders committed when a bride was found not to be a virgin on the wedding night, according to the June 1996 issue of the British medical journal, The Lancet. ok, I do remember hearing something about doing them in those cultures.. Don't they insert fake blood packets as well before the wedding night for extra proof? weird. Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Hahaha I meant yeah what BigB said Sorry about that, I was sleepy when I typed that hahaha! Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by joel if a gal says shes a virgin how can u tell if shes lieing or telling the truth? i now aboyut the himen but that can be reattached. how else and clues and advice to see if a gal is really a virgin or not It's already been asked, but once more for the record (and maybe an answer): What does it matter? Are you some kind of royalty that can only beget offspring from a virgin? Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by BigB ok, I do remember hearing something about doing them in those cultures.. Don't they insert fake blood packets as well before the wedding night for extra proof? weird. Yes they do insert the fake blood packets. In those cultures it's a life saving procedure in some cases. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted May 8, 2005 Author Share Posted May 8, 2005 the feeling of her being with other guy or other guys and myself being with no other girls and her being my first. kinda of feeling like shes used materials-in a way. maybe also feeling inferior that i had no gals and she is my first and her being experienced. shouldn't it be the other way around -guy having more girls than the girl having more guys. Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 dude, trust me on this, she won't care that your a virgin. When you find the right one she might even appreciate the fact that you haven't been running around getting laid all the time. Experienced women are preferable for your first time IMO, they know what they are doing and will teach you well. Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by Barby Hahaha I meant yeah what BigB said Sorry about that, I was sleepy when I typed that hahaha! that what I figured, but I was going "umm.. who's Bob?" no worries, someone once asked me if my handle (BigB) was a reference to "being big where it counts" (it's not) Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted May 9, 2005 Author Share Posted May 9, 2005 guess u guys are right, jsut gettin it into my head. right now i just have to find the right gal, get good grades in college and get a p/t job-got one starting this thurs-training session and they pay u for the training too yeahhh.-but high turnover job-telemarketer. maybe there will be good looking gals at my workplace who nows. thank u guys for ur advice Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted May 9, 2005 Share Posted May 9, 2005 Originally posted by joel if a gal says shes a virgin how can u tell if shes lieing or telling the truth? i now aboyut the himen but that can be reattached. how else and clues and advice to see if a gal is really a virgin or not There is no sure way. You have to go by what you know of her and what she tells you. When I lost my virginity I did not bleed and I thought I had to but nope. It's different with each girl. Link to post Share on other sites
condor Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 i'm undergoing the same questioning with myself on this topic. She told me she was a virgin before we did it.But here and there during the sex, it appears like she might have lied. 1) She apologised afterwards that since it was her 1st that she is afraid she wasnt good. 2)If a virgin before, would she pull off positions that makes you wonder. Is it because she is trying to please you? 3) Unconcerned that we had unprotected sex. I've tried to get more out of her. But without avoiding a full-blown argument. It bugs me, cause i get the impression she is lying...and i so much want to tell her that i love her...but this is bugging me... oh well c Link to post Share on other sites
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